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My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now and I noticed things weren’t the same as they used to be but I didn’t know why until she told me about how she was depressed a couple of days ago. I love her so much and I’m always going to be there for her as long as she wants me to be, but the thing is when I told her this she said that she doesn’t feel anything, for anyone, it’s like her heart is empty, she told me. I asked her if she wanted to end things with me, she said no but she can’t spend too much time with me either (I must add that we’re in a long distance relationship) because she’s tired of pretending sometimes. But she also said that she doesn’t want to lose me. I told her that if she doesn’t feel anything I don’t necessarily want to pressure her into anything and that she wouldn’t lose me even if she decides it’s better for her if we at least take a break because she needs to breathe, that I was always going to be there for her, but that it would just take the pressure of maintaining a relationship off her shoulders. I don’t know if all of this makes sense, but my point is, she doesn’t necessarily wants to talk to me about it and I don’t know what I should do. I suppose it’s the depression that makes her feel nothing for me, but it makes me sad you know ? I want to help her but I don’t know how.
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