My grandson has Pectus Carinatum
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My grandson has pectus carinatum and I have tried to find a group helpline of people who have the same problem as him. There is a patient chat line in America but it would be good if he could get feedback from someone in England. Most of their post is from sufferers with pe not pc as well. He will be having the operation this year. He's 18. There must be loads of you out there with no-one to talk to having the same problems.
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Beaton21
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I just came across your post. Here is a post i have written about my experience with a PC.
Ok so here we go,
I'm now 23, but my story begins 10 years ago.... I must have been about 13 when i had started going through the painful, embarrassing stage that is puberty. At the time i was a top level swimmer for my age group (training 4 hours a day) winning competitions and being seen as a legend by my peers. However what no one knew was the pain i was going through inside.
A number of people had commented about my rather usual chest, but in the swimming world you see all shapes and sizes and people soon begin to get use to it. (plus there were two other guys with a similiar/milder condition). I must mention the swimming group i was in was very close net group of friends.
At the time i was also a keen rugby player and it was here that really affected me. I hated the changing room. People would stare, ask questions and even prodd my chest in discust. Obviously playing rugby meant i had people constantly smashing into me and feeling this deformity. After the session i would wait until the majority had left the changing room before exposing my chest and even then i hid it in as many ways as i could think off.
I can look back now and see how much it affected my social skills and my ability to get close to girls. I was forever trying to hide this obscure condition, wearing multiple layers and even at one point placing an item on the other side to even out my chest. I honestly tried everything, i had even developed a technique of tensing my stomach which reduced the size of the sternum, but as you can imagine this was exhausting and not very practical. As i've read in a couple of other posts, i'm no the only one to try and push and compress my chest back into shape.
The first time i looked into the condition i must have been 16. There was very little information available and what procedures were available were abroad, costly or not for someone in the middle of growth spurt.
So i pushed on, everyday worrying that someone would expose me and pull that face that still haunts me today. You know the face i mean, a mixture of confusion and discust ( even if by accident, it is an immediate response).
After years of staring i finally decided to quit swmming. I was tired of the questions and started to recluse and began using drugs to deal with the pain and embarassment. I could blame the drug use on my chest but in actual fact i think that would be incorrect. I started smoking weed to fit in with a particular crowd. It is also a lot easier to brush of the questions when everyone around you is stoned and only worried about what they can gorge on next.
Once again i decided to do some research, just to see if anything had changed. It hadn't but i came across an article written by someone in a similiar position who said by lifting weights it reduced the visibility of the deformity. So off i went, hitting the gym at every possible moment, using suppliments. Did i notice a difference? No, however it did give me that bit more confidence and self esteem, although it is not a solution. ( for me, i'm sure for people with milder conditions it can be of benefit).
So i left school, and decided to take a gap year teaching in Uganda. Obviously i was nervous meeting a group of new people and once again having to explain my condition. I was surprised to find that very few of my firends paid any attention to it whatso ever. There were questions ( which were asked in a subtle and sensitive manner) but for the first time in my life i felt comfortable with my shirt off.
It was in Uganda that i met my girlfriend (still my girlfriend after 4 years). We clicked and everything was great. She never once made a single comment about my chest as she knew how much pain it had caused me growing up. In some ways i wish she had just addressed it but i won't hold that against her.
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Joanne_L
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I am new to all this, my daughter is sixteen and has an appointment to see the surgeon for her operation for pectus carinatum. I am really struggling to find any one that is female that has gone through this, all the information relates to males. We are interested to know what to expect post op, how long recovery will be?
Thanks any info would be appreciated she should be having her op July/ August.
yoq Joanne_L
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sara22136 Joanne_L
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im a girl who has the same thing. I really hate having everyone staring laugh and judging me for it. i cant talk to my pearnts about it as they dont understand what im going thorugh. i wanted to know if the surgery worked and if it hurt badly or left scars. Im conciderign having surgery but im not sure. Do you know any other ways to get rid of it with out surgry?
pcmom sara22136
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Hello, my son has/had PC and he went through bracing in the US but you have the same in Manor Hospital in Headington as I read. We used the same brace and had fantastic results. My son was almost 15 when he actually got the brace and after 4 months it was almost normal. Look into that because it's less invasive, no pain of surgery and no scarring. Good luck with your treatment with whatever you decide.
alison76929 sara22136
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Hi Sara, that's a real shame you can't talk to anyone about this. My son has just had the bracing fitted with Joe and dr hunt at the pectus clinic in Sussex. It's amazing what they did and although it's early days we can see a massive improvement already. It is expensive though & the NHS will be next to no help, so you do need to get your parents on board. Good luck, hope it goes well.
irene54159 alison76929
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Hi Alison
my son has PC and we are just about to purchase a brace through a surgeon at the Royal Sussex in Brighton. I've only just heard about the pectus clinic. The brace is going to cost 3.5k and comes from Argentina via France. We need to pay up front as it's custom made. Not sure now if we should try to 'shop around'. Would be good to hear more of your story if you have time.....
Joanne_L sara22136
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My daughter was advised that surgery was her best option due to medical issues often the operation is cosmetic but in my daughters case it was necessary. She had two operations over an 8 month period all covered by the nhs. Although she has been left with a very large scare she has no regrets having the operation. I wouldn't advise anyone to go for the operation without looking at other options as the operation is risky and recovery time is 6 months. I have heard positive reviews about the braces but this wasn't an option in my daughters case as the pressure from the beast bone was pushing on her lungs causing shortness of breath
natalie90573 irene54159
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Hi Irene
I have just enquired at the Pectus Clinic in South London for my son and the total cost of the brace from America via Joe including consultancy/follow-up visits is £3k. Also I understand the brace is slightly different from Argentina. If you haven't already done so, perhaps give Dr Hunt's secretary a call to get more information?
natalie90573 alison76929
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I have just enquired for my son who is 16 to see Dr Hunt/Joe at the Pectus Clinic - this is really promising news and am feeling very hopeful. Thanks for posting.
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alison76929 andylaurel
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Hi I'm currently talking to mr hunts office at the pectus clinic about bracing. 100% success rate, but expensive at approx 2k.