My husband doesn't sleep.

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He tries to sleep but can't. Sometimes he goes 5 days with no sleep. This has been going on for about 3 years. The Dr has tried him on many different drugs, he's tried a few different varieties of weed, acupuncture, reflexology, chiropractic. You name it he's tried it. He used to be ok mentally after 2 or 3 days with no sleep but now even after just 1 night of no rest he becomes very agitated and has started not making sense when talking. Yesterday he finally fell asleep after 2 nights and he ended up falling out of bed and was so disoriented it really scared me. The worst it's ever been. He has no memory of falling or of any of the things he is saying. Sometimes it will seem as though he is wide awake and all is fine and then he will start saying random things. Often getting mad at me for trying to get him to sit down when he is up wondering around. He was able to get about 6 hours of sleep at one time the other night but when he woke up he said it was like he was awake the whole time, felt like he hadn't slept at all. He is unable to work now because of sleep deprivation and I'm fearful for his health and safety. A sleep study was done but he never slept. We just got approval to travel 200 miles to see another specialist but at this time my expectations are low due to the fact that so far his pulmonologist and his neurologist can't seem to do anything except have him try more pills that don't work. I know this sounds rather odd and I'm sure I've left out details but any help would be wonderful.

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    Jennifer,

    I am sorry about your husband and I know this affects you as well, indirectly causing you to lose sleep. It seems your husband is having a nervous breakdown. Any anxiety issues?

    I had sleeping problems, really bad. Days of almost no sleep at all and I know the last thing you want to hear is taking more pills but this is what helped me. Herbal extracts of Chamomile and Valerian

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      Thank you for your input. I've thought this same thing except the problem started 3 years ago when his job was still great. Money wasn't an issue and life was without worry. Now everything is a wreck since losing his job due to having his hip replaced. now he cant find work. hes 59 and has always done construction work. I think NOW he may be on the verge of a nervous breakdown, but like I said all this started before times went bad.

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      construction is a tough sector. and for an active person, he is gonna feel in hell behind a desk. But encourage him not to give up.

      I honestly do not know how exactly to help, except recommend the pills that personally helped me

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