My neighbor is bullying me I’m very worried

If you feel threatend in any way...do not answer the door.....how well do you know this neighbour!!..?..if you dont know them.very well..and you are not on friendly terms.... And you feel afraid of their motive...and this continues...... have a chat with the police....and they will advice you....never open the door..if you feel threatend by the person on the other side.....seems rather strange....stay safe.....if this continues ....get advice..

Gather evidence with your phone, take pictures, take audio recordings etc. and when it gets out of control go to the police. Don't respond to the bully yourself, stay safe!

Hello Yaseen, I am sorry you are having to go through this but the advice you have been given is good. The best thing you can do, is to keep a record of what is happening, in a diary & on your phone, then you will have to go to the police for help.

If the local council has housed you, then there ought to be someone there to help you

Are you in the UK?

Ignore the banging because you don't want to get into an argument with him, or worse.

Good luck & come back and tell us how you get on.

HI yes im in the Uk ive in this house for 4 years ive got 2 kids one is 9 months and one is 2 years old. they both cant talk. if we use pestle n motor he bangs wall. pestle n motor is spice crusher as i cant afford a spice grinder. my kids are kids we try aur best to keep them quiet but they are kids at end of day they need to play run in house. my big son he sometimes crys at night neighbour bangs the wall. then one night kids wernt well the had a cold fever they were down at 12 am he comes banging on door saying yr kids crying my wife says they are kids and they not well.

other thing is he smokes weed all smell seeps into my house ive never said nothing.

he and his wife fight bang doors ive never said nothing. they have sex at school times ive never said a word. it just git to much so i complained and then this satrday thts gone he bangs door saying why ive complained.

bad thing is ive told everything to the housing officer but dont have any evidence on video.

im disabled i have splinnts on my legs.

ive told the truth lets just hope he doesnt lie i think hes very paranoid with smoking weed.

I do.not want to appear un sympathetic

to.your problem....which does sound a nightmare ...but i.feel with this type of problem..you need special advice....this sight is more to.discuss health issues...and try to.advice each other about those....what is happening with you.and your neigbourquite another kind of issue......and one from.what you say...could develop into some thing serious.....you really need to.speak with some one ...who can give you the very best advice...to.address the issues that you are describing ..... which are not at all.pleasant....and if left could get much worse...your first port of call....would be your local police station....and have a chat....with some one there...who.can advice you.according to the law....and perhaps visit with you.....so.you can chat with the people next door to.settle the problem....the police are used to these kind of problems..and help.to.settle the problem....other wise it could get out of control....and things get worse..... Leading to even more unpleasantness ...so my advice to.you..because you have small.children ...is to talk to.someone at your local police station...and get their advice...sooner rather than later...

Hi Yaseen

1/ don't engage him

2/ record his actions

3/ keep a journal of these attacks - note every little thing

4/ inform police, provide copies of your journals

5/ ask police about restraining orders/ domestic violence orders

6/ have you a landlord? Inform owner/operator of property of incidences, insist on your right to safety

7/ are you the sole target? Are there others? Witnesses?

You have the right to live unmolested in your home, to have a safe, peaceful environment in which to live. It's important that you keep your cool, be honest in recording events, and call police whenever an attack occurs. If police are dismissive, contact your local representive/minister.

Next time he comes knocking your door call police as the abuse happens and let them hear, or alternatively record and play back to police.

People like those thrive on bullying

Hi thank you very much to you all.

I'm really worried me as I'm scared if my kids cry 2 year old as he cnt talk he cry he might bang wall.

Plz help.

My kids go bed at 8p8pm before that they get cranky

cranny

Just keep phoning the police as they will record the events that have happened and it can be used against him if need be, don't be afraid of him as thats what he wants as he's a bully!! stand your ground as you have a right to live your life happily and stress free and police reports are better than hand written ones by yourself as they are concrete evidence if it comes to them being told off or evicted or take to court, just keeps you right, also keep updating your local council about it all and they can have mediation go out and talk to them and yourself and try resolve matters.