My partner is in a sort of coma

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He has been in hospital since may,he had a seizure and stopped breathing .I did CPR,he was in ICU .he can breathe on his own ,his eyes are open and there is eye movement.he is now in another hospital for therapy but because I'm not next of kin they can't tell me in detail of his recovery but said that over all he's doing quite well but when I saw him again I didn't see any change from l as last time but because of problems with his family I don't go as often as I'd like

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  • Posted

    Call his family and get a diagnosis. 
    • Posted

      I'm not in touch with his family,I did mention in my post that I had problems so they wouldn't give me a diagnosis !

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    Sorry to hear this are you friends family, and why won’t they let you maybe he had seizer with stroke he needs time heal hun took me year hospital also had life support month 4 months one hospital he most likely go to rehab after little more improvement . Hope he gets better also my sister past away last week massive heart attack shopping Christmas got house parking lot that’s it left 3 kids two home still one beautiful grandson . Literally my mom past two months ago alo 92 But should of happen long story . Then after my 4 month one hospital transferred to general rehab in Ottawa 6 months still was paralyzed Gillian Barrie syndrome Psw for year but walking slow can’t run go speedy so far there saying got go back to gym also little here 4 days week putting me back in physio . If your concerned so on I don’t know your detail with family so can’t judge go when u can the rest not sure what to say . Have great Christmas New Years hun
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      He's my partner/fiancé ,he had a seizure last may and I did CPR and saved his life .I visited every day but then for no reason his mother sent messages accusing me of trying to harm and kill him both hospitals let me see him but it's akward as I bus there but don't know when they visit and feel nervous incase I sent them but last Thursday he was on his own .I showed him an Xmas card I got him but didn't leave it there as they would have ripped it up probably

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    Well that not there business ur his partner and so on fiancie wow literally not cool . Why would they accuse you that’s not nice and literally he’s big boy / man then go at different times what they telling them at the hospital ? He can make his mind up as long as your not fighting in hospital doing bad things . Or ? Hun don’t make sense hospital won’t and family accusing u of a bad thing that’s terrible why do they think you would ?
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      he hasn't woken yet so can't speak for himself but I've sent him twice recently though which is good and he seemed more alert this time when I first walked in

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