My sister and niece said i have giving up on life😃( because of my appearance)

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Lately i don't feel like doing my hair barely or brushing my hair😩😧. 17 days afteri had a 2nd post op dceided to put my hir in a pony tail😳😧😖 was soooooo exhausted had to take like 3 brakes😔🤧😕. So my hair stays however it looks when i wake up😂😂😂🤣😔😒. And i was the type of person that always had to do something to their hair even if i was just going to mailbox or just stepping outside of my house. But this surgery has took most of my energy because i already had anemia because of the heavy bleeding. I seriously don't feel like doing nothing!! last week i was like i want to go out do something but then I'm like I don't feel like it because my hair looks horrible i can't even dress the way i use too😤. Last Saturaday my sister was having a party and i wanted to go but the day before i was like I'm not going because i didn't feel good but the truth was i didn't go because i can't do my hair the way i want or I'm just to tried to do it AND I CAN'T WEAR ANY OF MY JEANS😬😬😡😡😡😠😠😠😠😡!!!!Can't wear 99 percent of my clothes😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢. So basically 4 pajama pants and 4 big shirts i wear to sleep😣😫😧😖🤦🏾🙍🏾. When can you start wearing jeans again🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤗😃🤓🙄😀😀🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

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    Hi Pam,

    Sorry to hear that you are feeling the way you are feeling. Are you taking iron pills to help with the anemia or even eating iron enriched vegetables? Which surgery did you have? Did the nurse get back to you?

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      Nope they never called me back smh😒. Yeah i'm taking Ferrous sulf iron pills but i sometimes don't take them. I don't really eat veggies or fruits. I had an open myomectomy which i was told they were going to try doing a laparoscopic myomectomy first but they didn't😬. What surgery did you have?

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      Nope but on my 1 month post op my i was told it was glue😒.

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    I ended up having the uterine fibroid embolization. I had 4 fibroids with the largest being 13 cm. My fibroids have shrunk, but not sure if they are gone (no money for the follow-up MRI). I will see a gyne next month and find out his opinion.

    I was taking iron supplements prior to the surgery, so that was helpful. I do not take as much as the doctor told me because I had difficulties with digestion. I eat the green veggies when I can. My iron count is improving, and will see next month if the anemia is "gone".

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    Hi Pam,

    Yes, I remember the glue, and glad that was all it was for you.Β  I had a 2 week follow-up after my procedure, at which point, I had asked the doctor what the gunk was on my leg.Β  They certainly use a lot of glue, but it washes away slowly so all is good.

    Have you been feeling better now?Β  Β Have a pleasant week.

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      Yeah it's very slow😒. I've been feeling alot better still can't wear any of my jeans😔😤. Still get alot of pulling and pain goes and comes. Not to happy about my cut😬. They didn't make a straight line😧😠😡. Giving it time to heal more maybe it well look better with time😒😔😕🤧😢😭😭😭😭. You have a good weekend too🙄

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