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My take on why some women suffer and some dont

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toria_07298
toria_07298

i personally think its because alot of womens hormones drop nice and neatly and dont fluctuate wildy, i mean my mum had no symptoms and was done at a young age. even on here there are some that suffer and some that can hardly function to work etc, this sucks!!! xx

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  • dana06119
    dana06119 toria_07298

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    I agree. It was the same with my mom. She had none of these symptoms. Just hot flashes and night sweats. To be honest, I had no idea that hormones could wreak such havoc on our bodies. It's the worst!!

  • hopeforever
    hopeforever toria_07298

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    A dr told me that women who experienced a tramatic past or very stressful one , suffers badly during this time. I looked at my own life and compared it to my 3 sisters and see some truth to that because i endured hell compared to them. I get so angry at times and ask the question why me because it's just not fare.

    • vivian72668
      vivian72668 hopeforever

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      Hello Hopeforever..

      Your post is VERY profound; thanks for your insight.

    • hopeforever
      hopeforever vivian72668

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      Very profound indeed. Its crazy how some women suffer more than others. None of my sister's including my mom went through such hell. I am currently fighting sinus and migraine head aches. Just hate all of this. Wishing all the women well on this forum.

    • hopeforever
      hopeforever toria_07298

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      I truly believe that stress or past trauma has something to do with the difficulties we are all facing without any explanation from drs or any health professional. When i am not that stressed, i find that my symptoms have subsided tromendesly , but when all hell is breaking loose in my life my symptoms are worse. I believe there are so many contributing factors as to why we are all suffering but not one grounded solution to help us out of the suffering. God help us all get through. Much love everyone.

    • toria_07298
      toria_07298 hopeforever

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      hope do you ever get migraines that make your forehead feel bruised xx

    • hopeforever
      hopeforever toria_07298

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      yes very bad ones. Last month i went through hell . I never had migraines until peri. And to top it off my sinus flare ups. only God can help us. This is torture. Hang in there.

    • toria_07298
      toria_07298 hopeforever

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      thanks lovely, im so dizzy, its the top of my forehead feels bruised 😦 xx

    • vivian72668
      vivian72668 hopeforever

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      Hello HF..

      I am convinced, sinus problems are DEFINITELY menopausal-related. I know for a fact, migraines are. That said, I have NEVAA had allergies, yet when I began my peri-menopausal journey, my doctor told me I have allergies! Shut the front door and call me Mary! There are soooo... MANY undocumented menopausal symptoms, some I think women are afraid to utter.

    • seetu51265
      seetu51265 hopeforever

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      hi hope, how is your migraines and sinus?? did u get any relief????

    • hopeforever
      hopeforever seetu51265

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      Hello Seetus1265. Thank God that period is over. I have no more migraines and sinus problems. This roller coaster of symptoms will test you on every level. Some stay longer than others but what we must understand is that they come and go. Some stay longer than other and some completely disappear and never return. But one thing for sure I am grateful for is this forum of wonderful ladies supporting each other. It has been my lifesaver.Take care and God bless

    • seetu51265
      seetu51265 hopeforever

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      hi hope, how long do u suffer from migraines n sinus??? im still dealing with it 😭 n does it suddenly disappear for you or u r taking some medicine??? good to hear this symptom is gone its terrible.

  • priya82066
    priya82066 toria_07298

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    its not fair some of us has to go through this hell and some breeze through it. havent heard anyone in my friend circle who has anything even close to what i am going through. 😦 horrible!

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