My wife is depressed and negative person
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My wife is very much depressed and negative person. I love her and want to support her but in any even, she wants to find most negative outcome. She thinks everyone is against her and everyone wishes ill about her. I am now dragged into this and losing all my persona and enjoyment of life. I had to cut all my soical relations so I can give her time still she thinks negative about me.
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elizabeth20203 jags77000
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Hope this helps.
Elizabeth.
Tamarind jags77000
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yvonne81394 jags77000
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I have chosen to be positive as possible, realize what my anxiety is and know that medicating myself will only damage my ability to rationalize and use cognitive thinking against my bad feelings. I feel that this brings on more positive than negative because you can't fix the world anyway so you have to look out for yourself and try to focus on the good even though that's difficult at times. She is judgmental, blabby to total strangers and can get angry for no reason. She difficult to be around because having a conversation with someone so negative brings me down too. She's the spitting image of my mother so it definitely runs in families.
So my advice to you is the same as the other good advice here and that is get her in to a good therapist ASAP. And don't let them just shove meds at her because even though those might work great at first, it's not a permanent fix. Some of them actually can cause symptoms to get worse or even suicidal so drugs aren't the entire cure. As long as they are used to get her to a good place without putting her in a loopy fog just to mask the symptoms is not the answer.
I know what you are going through and I wish you the best.