myhusband has just been diagnosed with cancer of the oesophagus
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Symptom loss of weight found at well man check up. Has had endoscopy, tumour is 7cm extending 2cm into stomach. Had ct scan yesterday mow awaiting consultant appointment. Very anxious. Does lack of any symptoms indicate early stage
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clare71892 lesley_78762
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AlanJM lesley_78762
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There are two main types of oesophageal cancer. The predominant one is adenocarcinoma that tends to be towards the stomach in the location you describe. It is invariably preceded by Barrett's Oesophagus where lesions develop because of the effect of stomach acid, but sometimes this is not felt by the patient in the form of heartburn (although there may have been heartburn in the past). The other form is squamous cell carcinoma, that is often located towards the throat.
The treatment will entirely depend on the TNM situation. Some patients will have chemotherapy and/or radiotherapy and then an operation to remove the affected part of the oesophagus and stomach, and sometimes chemotherapy afterwards. This will depend on the the fitness and strength of the patient. It is a major operation, but I know many people who have had this surgery and enjoy a good quality of life afterwards, even if they do have to be careful about what and how they eat. The chances of success in the long term are very much affected by the TNM analysis. If caught in the early stages, the prospects are good, and I know a good number of people who have been treated successfuly at Stage 3.
This news will be a shock to you, and there will be a succession of medical appointments which will tend to dominate your lives. But there is also a mental / morale aspect to it all when you will need to talk to each other about what you are facing,and the succession of feelings of bewilderment, anger and so on. You will need to think about the others that you share your news with. Some people will react unhelpfully, but it is not their fault, but you will find surprising reserves of strength support and friendship that you would never have realised. Cancer centres like Maggie's centres are really helpful, kind and comnstructive as well.
You might also think about contacting the Oesophageal Patients Association who have a website and a helpline on 0121 704 9860
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"Tiredness. Feeling very tired is a common side effect. It’s often worse towards the end of treatment and for some weeks after it’s finished. Try to pace yourself and get as much rest as you need. It helps to balance this with some gentle exercise, such as short walks. If you feel sleepy, don’t drive or operate machinery."
People do react in individual ways to chemotherapy. They are strong drugs and it is common for people to need to check back with the oncologist if they are not being 'tolerated' well. It would not be surprising for this to cause a lot of activity in the lungs, and this can make it feel as if you are being stifled. It is very unpleasant and debilitating because it can feel that your lungs are fighting to be able to work. So so feel free to check back with the hospital as they will expect you to do this.
eric40010 lesley_78762
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donna11913 eric40010
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all the best to you Eric.
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donna11913 AlanJM
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when we speak to the surgeon next week do we have any way to pick what hospital or surgeon ? I guess all of us what the best one.
AlanJM donna11913
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It is easy to give advice, but I think in your position I would go to a Maggie's Centre or equivalent and talk to somebody trained and experienced in dealing with the effects of having a loved one being diagnosed with cancer. The Macmillan support line might be a good place to start. Somehow or other you have to get your mind round the situation you find yourselves in. If you can both find a way to manage the feelings you are going through, it will not be so hard. But people tend to deal with this in different ways and there is no right or wrong. Your husband might want to deal with it in a different way from how you do. And be prepared for all the attention to be on the patient rather than the spouse, who goes through the mill as well.
donna11913 AlanJM
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eric40010 lesley_78762
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nancy54455 eric40010
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I am glad for you that your surgery went so well. However, for me it was anything but smooth. I was in the top rated cancer centre but suffered several complications. I don't think it's fair to call major surgery a "doodle" whatever that is. The American Cancer Society calls this surgery "formidable" and equivalent to bypass surgery.
After 6 months I am still far from healed. This surgery is not to be taken lightly. I would also never leave the patient alone in the hospital, as pain drugs cause confusion. My best to all.
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