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maria76995
maria76995

Hi girls I don't know what to do with myself most of the time...it's like I get up get on but when sitting around I get all fidgety and then I get up walk around..today I went into H&M and bought 2 summer tops and I was ok but came home took my coat off and went freezing cold dressing gown on now..I'm sleepy too after not having no sleep again is like I want to get on and this crap got me on hold like I'm in a different world I'm trying so hard to push through  everyday I get up still meno w it's me..my friends want me to me them and I want too but how I could I if I'm going to be all anxious and can't keep quiet,does anyone feel like me.

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  • caroline62395
    caroline62395 maria76995

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    I feel just like you Maria, I want to act like myself but just can’t it’s really upsetting, I’ve cancelled loads of things because I just can’t face socialising, I feel like my whole personality has changed. I wake up everyday and hope I feel ok, some days are better than others but mostly I just feel so down and fed up with all the aches and pains, anxiety, health anxiety and headaches. I’m trying different things at the moment, yoga, aromatherapy, mediation just in the hope things will improve, you are not alone xx
    • Maud12345
      Maud12345 caroline62395

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      I am lile this 2 this health anxiety is taking over my life

      Always think something is wrong x

    • caroline62395
      caroline62395 Maud12345

      Posted

      I always think there is something seriously wrong with me, whatever pain I have I jump to the conclusion it’s the worst possible outcome and I cant help it.  I’ve had so many tests, scans, endoscopy you name it I’ve had it, I still think the doctors have missed something. It takes over your life x
    • maria76995
      maria76995 caroline62395

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      Caroline I don't think there's anything wrong with us everyday we get up and nothing..are you taking anything to relax you..I was talking to my cousin and she's says oh I don't worry about anything if she was going through the menopause like us she wouldn't say that..she only getting minimal symptoms not big major ones I hope she don't get real thing

    • maria76995
      maria76995 caroline62395

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      Caroline I find when I sleep I'm not bad if don't get it I'm ratty..it does get me down too, I'm on the sofa here at the moment not comfortable just driving myself mad..but I'm going to fight it all the way

  • Maud12345
    Maud12345 maria76995

    Posted

    Yes i am axious all they time i dont want to go out with freinds just wa t ro be at home . Are you postmenopausal?
    • maria76995
      maria76995 Maud12345

      Posted

      Hi Maud, yes I'm Post got no periods now..are you relax sitting down or in bed 

    • Maud12345
      Maud12345 maria76995

      Posted

      In bed i feel anxious all the time typing this i just want to cry x
    • Mars777
      Mars777 Maud12345

      Posted

      Hi Maud I feel as you do, very anxious when in bed mornings are the worst for me! I am back on HRT now but they take a while to work, I feel so good when on them. Not for everyone thou ! I need quality of life, awful feeling as we do sad
    • maria76995
      maria76995 Maud12345

      Posted

      maud don't cry you are ok we all are its feelings that's why they can't find anything wrong with us 

  • Mars777
    Mars777 maria76995

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    Hi Maria ... I feel like you .. I am post meno! I take HRT I feel so good on them can't believe how different? I had to stop them for a while ... now I feel anxious (Not Health Anxiety) I get hot sweats then the next minute I'm freezing cold, I like you feel a different person .. Horrible feeling like this.

    • maria76995
      maria76995 Mars777

      Posted

      Well with me it's Anixety I'm bothered about.and if I can sleep it off it would help..in June last year I felt better come November I went back meno I'm hoping I will get better soon we have to tell our selves that anyway people say it's not for ever.

    • Maud12345
      Maud12345 maria76995

      Posted

      Sorry maria its the way i talk 2 is short

      for two meaning i have anxiety to x

    • maria76995
      maria76995

      Posted

      Ok..I here trying to watch tv and online talking with you girls..I notice my heart is not pounding like it use too,but still little racing at times
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