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Hello, my name is Jennifer and I am 48 years old. I am married and have two children, 7 and 14. I will only be able to explain a portion of my situation, because it has been going on for so long. My sister is 60 yrs old and a elementary school teacher. She is married and has three children. All of my life my sister has been hyper sensative, controlling, overbearing, critical, explosive and horribly moody. You cannot talk to her about anything unless it is a good time for her and she is in the mood to talk to you. If you try to explain how you feel, and express to her something she said or did that hurt you, she screams and yells and just explodes. She has controlled the mood and aura of every family gathering and holiday for as long as I can remember. Last year we found out that my nephew her son, was addicted to herioin. He is now in rehab and doing well. She and her husband did nothing to help him, until he ended up in the hospital and almost died. Since this my sister has become ten times worse, my other sister and I tried to talk to her a few months ago and tell her she needs help and we would join her in getting help as a family. She has caused scenes and family events, such as my daughters Communion party. She has started wispering and being insulting to my other sisters daughter who is 31 years old. She has become unbareable! My sister and I are having anxiety attacks and horible migraines and neck pain. Things became so bad that my sister and I have cut ties with my abusive sister. We told her in a text that we could no longer be in her company because it is unhealthy and toxic for the rest of our family especially my children my sisters children and my new great nephew who is just 8 months old. We do not want the next generation exposed to her. Please tell me if anyone has been through something similar, and how you have handled it and how it made you feel. Thank you !!!!! =((
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