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aroon70346
aroon70346

Ok. I have been mastrubating since young age. But now i have this condition if i want to quit it i cant . I have morning woods which are normal. Which means i am okay. But i feel pain in my balls after 5 6 days of quitting. I searched about it and term is "blue balls" . I am depressed about it like right now if i want to quit, I can't. Please help

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  • david911
    david911 aroon70346

    Posted

    What triggers in you the urge to masturbate? Do you watch too much of pornography? If no, is there something in particular that you masturbate to? I'm trying to determine what exactly might be a factor or factors so that we could eliminate them one at a time and see how you cope.

    • aroon70346
      aroon70346 david911

      Posted

      I used to. When i quit i try not to watch and stay restrained but  i got errection (somehow) with sexual thought , after 2 3 hours i will have this pain and it usually relieves by masturbation. Last time I thought i will not mastrubate whatever happens it become worse i thought if i will not mastrubate it will lead to wet dreams but no.
    • david911
      david911 aroon70346

      Posted

      I really don't think there's a problem with having a sexual urge; you're human and are supposed to experience sexual urge every now and then. It doesn't make you abnormal. It's actually what you do when you get such urge that makes the difference.

      Do you have a girlfriend? Are you married?

    • aroon70346
      aroon70346 david911

      Posted

      No I don't have and i am not married i know it's a kind of normal thing. Balls get filled every 3 days later.  All i need is I don't have girlfriend and I don't want to mastrubate. Is there any solution that I don't feel this burden on my balls.

  • Guest
    Guest aroon70346

    Posted

    How old are you? It's normal to want to masturbate often when you're young but it does become a problem if it is excessive in that, it stops you from going about your normal day. If you really want to get out of the habit then you should try to keep yourself preoccupied with other activities and refrain from being alone as much as possible. I don't think it's anything to worry about though.

    • david911
      david911 Guest

      Posted

      Exactly! Keeping himself preoccupied with other activities is the keyword.
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