Need Help i am freaked out....

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My Self Kumar and I am from Bangalore. My age is 34 and unmarried. For body relaxation I visited Massage Spa on 4th September 2019. But Unfortunately, the therapist offered me a Hand job (Happy Ending) along with massage. Idiotically I also took that service (No intercourse, direct sex, oral sex, direct contact with vagina, no body to body massage, no body fluid exchange), but I am not sure about the hygiene of the therapist hand, pantie, towel after shower which they provided me before and after massage and I am not sure about the therapist hand on any open wound or cut. But I am sure there is no wound / cut in my dick / penis.

Now I am very much worried that will I get any STD or HIV. Because after few days after massage i had a sore throat which is cured right now. I came to know this is one of the symptoms for HIV but i am not sure is this sore throat is co-incidence or its because of whether change as I gone through some of the article from online and I found that the Hand job will not spread HIV / STD. But still I wanted to take professional expert doctor opinion on the same.

Please do help me on the same

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  • Posted

    i donot think you have anything its probably just your mind honestly . unless she had a open wound on her hand and you had a open wound on your gentials but if you are scared just take the test im sure youll be fine

    • Posted

      im not a doctor or anything by the way but im paraniod and i react the same way about everything trust me

  • Posted

    you already posted about this the risk of hiv from a hand job is very low the chance of it is slim ..its most often passed on threw anal and vaginal sex

    • Posted

      hiv dosnt just cause a little sore throat that goes away it causes chronic sore throat thats persitant also u get other infections like oral yeast there are so many symptoms for hiv

    • Posted

      if u still think u have hiv have a test because no matter what anyone says u will still think u have it

    • Posted

      Dear Kim,

      Thanks for the reply.

      I do agree that there are many symptoms for HIV. Where in sore throat is one of the symptoms which made me to re-post my quire.

      Hope i am safe and i don't need to worry and undergo with test.

    • Posted

      I do agree with your answer that the chances are very low but it's not zero. Due to which i re-posted my quire.

      Please confirm.

    • Posted

      then the answer therefore would be to get a test if everybody was worried they had got hiv from a hand job the clinics would be packed full of people wanting tests im not even sure if they would test based on having a hand job unless she bled all over an open would u had ?? like i said the chances are very very low im not saying there is not a chance an i did mention this before which is why i recommended u see wat your doctor says

    • Posted

      with hiv its not just a sore throat that u get and it goes away it can be persistant and with loads of other symptoms including a body rash i think u are over thinking things i dont go to a clinic to have an hiv test everytime someone touches my vagina and i dont think many other people do either but as i said if u are worried still then a trip to the doctors will put your mind at ease

    • Posted

      I consulted few of the doctors where in they told the same thing you told that HIV will not spread from Hand job. But still i am not able to overcome from it.

      I do agree and respect your words. Please do let me know the best way to get rid of this from my mind

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