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HI guys I need some advise on a problem I am having about 3 weeks ago now my boy friend had a mental break down and his family were keeping me informed in on his progress and he's doing pretty well now and he's been asking to speak to me. recently tho they haven't been keeping me updated I have tried calling and texting but no response I don't know what it is I have done wrong. I myself suffer from depression and with all this going on my depression has been getting alot worse it got so bad that I wanted to end my life. I have no idea what to do I now feel that I am to blame for my boyfriend being like this and that's probably why his family aren't speaking to me even tho they haven't physical blamed me. my boyfriend dosent have his phone and he is still in hospital but I don't have any contact with him I need help and advice to what I should do and have I done anything wrong to this family please help.

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    Maybe the hospital and his parents hve decided that peace and quiet is what he

    needs to help him get better.

    Be patient and he will be in touch when he is ready

    Stay Strongcool

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    Are you not able to visit him. Being kept in the dark is not helpful when you are worrying so much about him. The only thing i can think of is that if you suffer with depression and feeling suicidal it maynot be helpful for him to be around you at the moment. Keep strong and hopefully in the future you will see him. Keep busy and concentrate on your own depression. Have you got treatment and a family member or someone trusting to talk to. 

    Best wishes.

    Elizabeth.

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