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Hello everyone may be the wrong thread for this but here goes I have a neighbour where I live that seems to find the fact that I struggle to walk properly absolutely hilarious whenever I see him he cracks up laughing at me it's started to make me feel really bad and I don't want to go outside I don't know what to do about it it's bad enough trying to deal with my health issues as it is can anyone give me any ideas how to cope with this

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    Hi i know this is easier said than done but ignore the ignorant little twerp.  Sadly some people in this world find the suffering of others a sorce of amusement but what you have to think is how sad and pathetic there life must be to take pleasure at your suffering.  Hope this helps take care and dont let it get you down.
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      Cheers I do try to ignore it but it's all the time I'm going to try and catch it happening on my phone video and post it on the housing associations face book page

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    HI Chris

    You are unwell as you've said this is just a sad person with nothing better to do!!

    Try to ignore it or laugh back at him.

    Don't rise to it hard said than done.

    This man is a sad man. To laugh at others misfortune is sick.

    I hope you go on alright

    You will always get stupid nasty people in this world. Your not one of them.

    Take care

    Vicky xxx

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      Thank you Vicky I'm just going to ignore the idiot can be doing with the hassle he's just a fat git with a ugly wife

      Take care yourself and be happy Chris xx

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    Hi Chris this is disgusting behaviour from him try ur best to get some evidence of him doing this an complain to ur housing group about this just try to ignore him he is a small minded person ur better than him rise above him he's not worth ur thoughts and ur time when u go out feel proud and hold ur head up high take care Chris. tina .

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    Hi Chris.  Having gone through lots of crap over the past few years I've learned a lot.  As in, one small thing, when I'm out walking I always say Hello to whoever I meet, mostly people don't answer & I used to think, Ah well! (Or words to that effect 😂wink but then it was pointed out to me, I don't know what they are going through or troubles they've left in their home before coming out walking.  This helps a lot, in your case if you ever feel brave enough, I will pray that you will, go to this person & ask him what he finds funny?  You just have to do this once as people like him trive on reactions, but if you call him out just once he won't see that coming and he will back off, or just ask him "what does he find funny every time you meet him, that you might find it funny also, that you could do with a laugh".  I was bullied at work for three years until one day I stood up to the leader of the group, he didn't know where to put himself, I went over to my office and shook for a while had a wee cry, but felt good, after that slowly the bullying stopped.  This is why I say this man and his likes trive on reaction - Please do not let him or anyone put you off going out and about.  Hold your head up & even if you are hurting inside pin a smile on your face and KEEP GOING.  We are all behind you & thinking of you.  There are great people on this site, I know, they've helped me so much, so keep in touch with them all. ??

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      Thank you Jean I know what your saying I really can't be bothered with the man now thing is I'm polite to everyone I've never been rude or play loud music I don't drink so no issues there this sort of thing always happens when I change my car as it's a motability vehicle.what gets me is they never ask what my problems are just judge I worked every day and paid my tax and insurance for 38 years most of these people are in their late twenties been nowhere done nothing they have a lot to learn about life

      All the best Jean and take care chrio

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      Well all I will say is it's them that has the problem and not you. as you say they have a way to go in life - you keep doing what you are doing, as they say in my part of the world " let them at it".  You just keep tipping along, as with all of us, them included, have to meet their maker some day. Without wishing bad on anyone as I never have and never would life is hard enough at time, but Karma is wonderful.  Keep your heart up & don't let gobsh*tes like that make you ever change from the caring person you are.  It's because you care that they can hurt you, again as said before "Let them at it" 😉

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      Hiya chris

      It's ignorant people Chris.

      That's all just plain ignorant!!

      You do not have to justify yourself to anyone.

      You are unwell you need a mobility car. .

      It happens when my family member gets his.

      This is jealousy but they probably don't have a clue why you have it. To them it could be oh look he's got a new car. You need it but they cant see past you've got a new car.

      Well actually you have to change them after a few years I know this.

      Go out in your car and have a nice drive forget them!!!!

      Take care now

      I really feel for you but keep going don't Let them get you down.. I know it's hard.

      I think jeans advice was spot on as well if you could face them ask what they find so funny. I guess you are afraid of the reaction. Why wouldn't you be after what they do to u.

      Keep going we are here.

      Xx

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