New relationship.

I am assuming if she used a code name it is because she wants people to know? I would just ask her and get the conversation out of the way. She might be having anxiety to bring it up so better you bring it up and find out what is going on. Condoms are the best route but also if she does have it if she is on medication that will reduce your risk. Female to male transmission is very low with those precautions but obviously not a zero chance. Talk to her because you will want to find out what type she has. Type 1 is 1-2 outbreaks a year and type 2 has 8-10. How do you know she was referring to genital herpes? Maybe she used a code name for oral? Either way you want to find out where the outbreaks are and what type. You CAN get type 1 on the genitals (from oral sex presumably). Then go from there. Condoms are your friend and use Latex like Trojan not the cheap unknown name brands. Knowing that she has it is half the battle. 

Yes prayer always a faithful relationship with God and her support her while she uses antivirals wait after a month learn about this skin condition and the risk only if u don't plan to marry for life I know people personally that don't take anything and have unprotected sex wow

Regarding HSV-2, female to male transmission is only 4% per year of bi-weekly *non-outbreak* sex in a monogamous relationship. With her taking antivirals, that goes down to 2%, and with the addition of condoms, it's just 1% per year. HSV-1 is much lower in all scenarios. An outbreak changes the odds, and so does a new infection, so find out if she definitely has it, which type, for how long, and whether she is on antivirals.

I am sort of in the same situation. I have HSV-1 genitals. I have been seeing this guy who I like so much. He doesn't have anything. He is scared he will get it from me. I'm scared to pass it on. I didn't tell him the first few dates. (We've been seeing each other for about 2 months) I told him after about two weeks. I had to make sure we hit it off. He doesn't want it but likes me so much that it hasn't been a deal breaker. We have our issues. Especially since we are talking about sex. He trying to look passed it but he is hesitant and just feels he will get it even though I told him we will be careful and I can tell if I'm about to get an outbreak. Anyway it's your body you def don't want it so just bring it up. If you guys are to that point in your relationship than you need to ask. What if she has something else besides the heroes. You never know. If someone won't tell you about that than what does that really say about the person you are with and what else may they be keeping from you. Obviously don't bring it up in public. Ask when you are alone and can actually talk. She is probably embarrassed and afraid of losing you also. I'm speaking from how I felt about it before I told my guy. He didn't react so well at first and didn't talk to me for two days but then he texts me out of nowhere because he says he can't see me not in his life and likes me that much. If you can have sex I feel you can talk about it or anything. If it doesn't bother you than it shouldn't be a big deal. Just watch your reactions when she does answer you because you don't want to come across as judging. Make sure you ask questions that way she feels that you are still interested and care.