New to site, LS, live in Cape Town
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Hi,
I am 38 & live in Cape Town, South Africa. I had 3 1/2 years of fertility and now have 2 beautiful boys who are 5 1/2 & 4 1/2...so my 'lower half' and I have been on quite a bumpy (painful & invasive) road for the last 9 years...
I was diagnosed with LS about a year ago (by my dermatologist after a year of misdiagnosis by my gynaecologist...as thrush). I think that this subject really needs to be made more available to South Africans as there is no literature on it here and our gynaecologists don't seem to know much about it or how to diagnose it.
Quite a lot of skin damage was done before the correct diagnosis so by the time I started using the dermovate I was already in quite a substantial amount of pain (redness, itching, painful sex, painful passing stools etc). There has been some discolouration of the skin and the texture seems to be different (sorry so graphic).
My Mom and sister are very supportive but clueless so it would be great to chat to those who are experiencing the same things as me. Please advise of products to ease pain...especially which soaps and lubricants to use.
My husband also knows but he is in denial...where I have been for the last year!
Thanks for reading...Leah (not my real name, sorry)
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mary34643 LeahRSA
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I also found that the lack of information among my doctors to be disturbing. I even had one give me Premarin to apply to aid the condition of the skin, and then another finally did a biospy and identify the LS. He gave my Clob and referred me to this site to learn more.
I had a removal of my ovaries and uteres for cancer about 7 years ago and then after that was when the LS developed. I tried over the counter meds for a few years then I finally ask the doctor to help me. I think the dietary into is important also. I am off gluten and dairy, and try to stay off sugar. When I do eat veggies more I think I am better. Good luck and keep reading.
suedm mary34643
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There is a theory that oestrogen cream on the vulva when the hormone levels are depleted witll plump up the tissue in the area- hence the Premarin I suspect- however if you are on HRT it is thought to be unnecessary
As a matter of interest when i was on the 5:2 diet last year i was so much better LS wise and there was an article that said after a fast of 72 hours the immune system was rebalanced after going into a decline during the fast - but I havent read any more on this subject recently
LeahRSA mary34643
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I think I probably need to have a closer look at my diet...I eat way too much dairy!!!
Thanks for the info, chat soon, Leah x
Octopus_1289 mary34643
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I am thinking that dairy and sugars have to go from my diet, not that I eat a lot of them, but I do like probiotic yogurt. Stress seems to trigger my LS. Last year, I took the attitude that I was going to eat better, walk more and exercise. I had zero flare-up. I lost nearly 40 pounds and felt wonderful. This year, I have had a concussion from a fall, and several stressful health issues that have kept me indoors and for weeks in a dark room b/c of headaches. Now I am on my third month of LS flare-up. Seems like body stress to me!
I can't use bleach, or any scented products. I wash my underwear in baking soda and hot water. It can't say that I find it makes any difference though.
Good luck to you and I hope you keep posting.
pat48434 LeahRSA
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LeahRSA pat48434
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Thanks...I am going to get some vasoline...always worries my when applying creams and ointments that some goes on the inside too much and that is not good?
Thank you, Leah x
hanny32508 LeahRSA
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Trying to live a life without too much stress (a bit of a challenge at times) Cutting out food items like sugar, alcohol, gluten, caffeine and most dairy. Plus hormone replacement. Supplements may have an added affect - vit D, C for instance.
LeahRSA hanny32508
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I am so looking forward to one of those baths...definitely need to try that...just need to put the little guys to bed first so I can try unwind too!
Leah x
hanny32508 LeahRSA
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LeahRSA hanny32508
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hanny32508 LeahRSA
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LeahRSA
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Couple of quick questions:
In terms of hair removal (keeping it neat), I haven't been able to do much but does it help to keep things shorter or should I just leave alone?
Coconut oil - as in the stuff I use in the kitchen?
Can I use normal aqueous cream that comes in the tub?
Food stuff - trying to cut down on sugar and carbs...not so sure I will manage cutting out the caffine and alcohol with two incredibly active (naughty) little boys - I do need to survive
Barrier cream - do I use baby barrier cream or is there an adult one?
I was told that my ovaries (eggs) were old - hence the fertility (even though I eventually fell pregnant naturally with both boys)... I suppose this could mean that I going to hit menopause early...therefore the hormone changes?
Stress...job, husband, small kids...LS...creating a lot of stress in my life at the moment. Not getting to the gym as much as I would like. I have also had 7 knee ops and both ankles which doesn't help so swimming at the gym pool is the best excercise for me but LS flares up when I do a lot of training!!! *angry face*
Thanks again, so pleased that I have finally got the courage to face LS and to actively do something about it...need to do a lot of work...
'When women support each other, incredible things happen!'
Leah x
hanny32508 LeahRSA
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Bridge_of_Sighs LeahRSA
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Some thoughts;
could the chlorine in the pool be causing flares? there was a thread about that a while ago, maybe you could search it. I'm having to rush out, sorry so I've only got time for a quick reply.
Nappy cream is good. I used Weleda Calendula nappy cream to good effect, others use a barrier cream with Zinc and find it soothes. Coconut oil - I use organic raw food grade from my local health food shop, and keep a tub in the bathroom to use after every visit. I've got young kids too but found that I drastically reduced coffee, and have now managed to cut it out. I still have the ocasional glass of wine and don't flare. And REALLY enjoy it for the rarity!
Normal aqueous cream ok but check for perfumes and avoid if there are any. I found something called Epaderm much better, if you google it you could find out if there's an equivalent where you are.
Got to rush off now, hope that's helpful. We're all different and have the things that work best for each of us, but you'll get to find your own favourites as you go.
Good Luck!
LeahRSA Bridge_of_Sighs
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I definitely think it could be something in the water but I also think the friction on that area in a swimming costume in liquid for extended periods of time (1 hour) doesn't help...would be nice to know the answers!
Thanks, Leah x