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Hi Everyone,
I was finally diagnosed with Fibro in Nov last year & was so relieved to have a diagnosis after 18 months of complete hell - my gp was useless as blamed everything, and still does, on my back injury( I have torn discs in my lower back due to heavy lifting at work).
I am now attending a pain clinic every 8 weeks and see a lovely consultant pharmacist who believes very much that Fibro exists and is trying to help me with my pain control; however it is the fatigue that cripples me and this is where my friends and family don't understand this syndrome. I've read a few posts on here before adding something and am relieved to find that a lot of us have similar experiences. Most days I am made to feel like a hypochondriac despite managing to drag myself out of bed and go to work. My boss has been helpful in that she allows me to complete my weekly shifts over more days however I know she is a non-believer of Fibro and makes me feel very uncomfortable by way of her attitude towards Fibro. I do of course get the usual comments of "you look alright" but this is only through sheer determination not to let this syndrome beat me.
Anyway I could talk for hours about my symptoms - it's good to know that I will get a positive response on here as we are all going through the same hell. My guy at the pain clinic recommended coming onto a forum and I'm glad I've finally took that step.
Thankyou for reading my post - I'm glad I've now got somewhere to come and discuss my Fibro.
Hope you're all 'well' today.
Take Care.xxx
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Bee70 Belldrum
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Welcome, You are not alone and I feel that by joining this forum it gives all of us on here that extra bit of support we all need from time to time. Totally agree with you we all look well to others but they don't see the pains we carry everyday. Only way to tackle this is not to give into Fibro and try to get the most of your day. Taking a day at a time is usually the key to focus on. Enjoy youe moment of each day and don't worry about things that don't get done. There is more to life than your daily chores, even if one was completed in a day that is perfect and if not try on another day. Cognitive Behaviour Therapy really helped me in the process of mindfulness thinking. I have been suffering with pains for over 20 years but only got diagnosed Aug 2014 with Fibro. Since joining this forum in March 2015, I have read many interesting facts from various people and it really feels good to know that I'm not alone.
Gentle hugs and keep us informed of your progress. xx
woodbon Belldrum
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I'm sorry about your boss too, but at least she is understanding enough to allow you time to try and cope. Their is some free leafelts I've seen advertised that you can give or have sent to your boss, which tells them more about Fibro. Your Pain Cliinic may know about them or someone else on this site, if you think it might help.She may be even more flexible and understanding if she gets to know more about Fibro.
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I have had to put dignity to one side for holiday this year and invest in a wheelchair, I'm determined to male sure my youngest has a great time, so I need to make sure I rest (chair it is).
I'm glad you c on hear to chat I've only been on a week myself and feel so much better being able to share and help. Nice to now you not alone all best tiff x