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I have a friend, well she is a little more than a friend. I have feelings for her and she knows this. She is suffering with depression she told me this herself. I have no issue with this, but i also have no understanding. She does not respond to me, i text to see how she is, i try and call - no answer. I am worried about her. I feel like i lost her. Before this everything was perfect. Then she explains to me shes unwell. I want to help her. She says shes needs space, in which i have tried my hardest. I leave her be, but every once in a while i will send a little text just wishing her well. Im just wondering will i ever hear off of her again? People with depression, why do they ignore people? I want to help her - do i continue to send supportive texts once in a while, or do i walk away? Do i totallt ignore her and hope she is ok.
I am beyond confused. I dont want to make this about me, i know shes hurting, i know shes lost and i just want to help her somehow. We dont live close so i am unable to pop and see her, which makes this hard. I think i love thia girl, i would do anything to make her feel better. I suppose what i am asking - 1- should i cut contact with her, or continue once in a while a short text so she knows i am here. 2- will i ever have the girl i knew back?
Thanks for any advice
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