No erections duing an outbreak with a condom,partner stressing me out over this.
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My wife does not understand how it feels to be in an out break, to make it worse I cant keep an erection with a condom on during the outbreak. Anyone else having this problem?
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Have you tried bringing sex toys into the bedroom? It can be just as satisfying. I say make a night all about her, get a vibrator, give her a full body massage, preform oral and use the toy. . when she sees how great it can be and it be all about her, she may stop hounding you. Good luck!
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How do I deal w what?
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Medical personnel and medical websites will say you should be abstaining from sex during an ob. The skin is more prone to obs and quite frankly, I'm disturbed by the fact aje could care less about your pain and your feelings about it. Did you go into this marriage already having heroes before sleeping w her, or did you find out u had it once yiu had slept w her at some point?
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Try clove oil in the sores for pain BTW.
No.. I wasn't w the person who lied to me and gave me this. I've not been w anyone or dated much since getting this in July.
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I got to a pint where I could be fine w flirting and not think about it and it mess w my self esteem, but when in really liking someone, it is all I think about. However, I remind myself that I have to stop thinking about it, because 9xs out of 10, I end up not liking the person or we are just not on the same page and worried about having the talk for nothing. I only have one gf out of 5 I know who have it, that has experienced rejection; yet ironically, those men were willing to sleep w her, hut not date her and they did still sleep w her. So I think it was just an excuse and they were never really in for the long haul to begin w.
Could be worse, could have been AIDs. I asked some friends today after reading an article, what is your biggest regret in life and that you would not do, had you have a chance to go back and undo it. I am certain my friends thought I'd say getting herpes, but it wasn't. It was ever dating my ex!!! Hahaha! Puts things into perspective doesn't it! For me, who had a horrific and rare reaction to herpes, to not select going back in time to not catch something I will have for the rest of my life, that to society has left w me the Scarlett Letter H and will have to have a humiliating talk every time I'm on my way to intimacy would not choose to undo that... Really shows that there is a lot worse things out there in life, your past present and future.. Than the Herp. That relationship did far more damage to me than this virus every could and it still all these years later is impacting me and I've not spoken w him for years. So if that doesn't make you realize how much this virus is irrelevant in the big picture, then I don't know what will.
So have you ran anything by your wife yet?