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I've had a small Bartholin's Cyst for close to 10 years that has stayed about the same all that time. It's about the size and shape of an almond and it hurts as pressure builds durring foreplay, but then generally will release and be okay once things get hotter. I would love to have this heal and be done with it, but I'm not sure if a surgery or marsupialization is worth it since the pain is bearable and stable. What should I do? It effects my sex life and makes love a lot less fun.
Another note is that at times when I have been really into the person and have felt like they are a great match for me, I didn't have symptoms but when I've had doubts about the relationship in general the pain comes back. This is true regardless of how turned on I am. The mind and body work in mysterious ways.
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