Normal?

Posted , 4 users are following.

I dont know if this is normal looking at all. I'm 21, a virgin, and have felt depressed many years over my penis. its dry most of the time, my foreskin gets really bloodshot and is painful during masturbation sometimes. I have had spells of balanitis due to a tight foreskin in the past.

If anyone can say if this is good enough looking to even show to a girl that would be most appreciated.imageimage

0 likes, 7 replies

7 Replies

  • Posted

    other than some redness it looks normal u should hold off on masturbation until the redness has gone to prevent further irritation

    • Posted

      How long would you suspect the redness to wear off. And is it friction that is causing it or something else. Thank you by the way.

  • Edited

    Exclude soap and shower gel from even getting on the upper-shaft and head area of your penis as this can be a source of considerable irritation - wash with water make sure you are completely dried afterwards using a clean dry towel that only you use.

    Do you apply anything to you penis when you masturbate - skin cream, baby oil - or anything at all .... ?

    • Posted

      I sometimes use coconut oil, but often I just avoid touching the glans and don't use anything.

    • Edited

      You should not be concerned about showing a Girl your penis - there is no inspection process prior to sex taking place. Girl's are concerned about what kind of person you are - for example, are you an interesting fun person to be with - what your penis is like has very little, if anything to do with what is often termed ' chemistry ' .....

    • Edited

      I just wanted to make sure that it was not so abnormal that it would make a girl not want to have sex. But, thank you for your words.

  • Posted

    You could try altering your grip when masturbating if it's hurting afterward

Report or request deletion

Thanks for your help!

We want the community to be a useful resource for our users but it is important to remember that the community are not moderated or reviewed by doctors and so you should not rely on opinions or advice given by other users in respect of any healthcare matters. Always speak to your doctor before acting and in cases of emergency seek appropriate medical assistance immediately. Use of the community is subject to our Terms of Use and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified as being in breach of those terms.