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sorry to be a misery guts..and thankyou all for your messages re; the dentist. will be going tomorrow..scared but will go.
just so fed up, feel like just standing on a mountain and crying my eyes out..have tears in my eyes now..its a long story re; my 81 yr old mother, and us wanting her to move into a house with an annex with us, she wont make up her mind, and i have to consider my 14, yr old and 8yr old kids, regardless of my 18yr old. as we want to move from the area it makes it tricky, so i suggested she came with us, but wont give me an answer and just snaps at me,..i am just trying to make everyone happy. why cant she think of the future, cos basically we want to move, but i wont unless she comes with us. oh this sounds so complicated, but its really screwing me up..just dont know what to do. fed up with life..its just so complicated.
sorry to ramble on. its just that melbi you asked us to post what 'normality is'..well my family just consists of me my 3 kids and hubby and my mum. dad died 3yrs ago, now, if this was a normal family, wouldnt an 81 yr old mother prefer to move with her kids rather than stay on her own in a 3 bed semi thats too big and no family around?
so melbi..i reckin my family isnt normal..i guess normality is like 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder...normality is in the eye of the beholder..
i too look at families and think wouldnt it be nice to be like then..it can become obsessive if you think about it too much. Melbi..you seem so normal and level headed..you have nothing to worry about from where i see it..but dont waste time comparing yourself to others..you are fine just as you are my love.
life is just a bloody nusciance at times(excuse swearing)...
hope i have answered your question Melbi.
sorry to confuse matters, scared of tomorow dentist, fed up and sad...aly xx
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