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Hi ladies - I am seeking advice. I have been suffering for 1.5 months with either LS or some kind of “skin cancer”. I was told by my OB that my symptoms are so severe, it’s likely I have something terribly wrong. I need support. Please. When I describe this to my family / friends they think I’m crazy or casually say “Oh I’m sure it’s just thrush, it will be fine”. I have no one to gain understanding and perspective from. Any advice / guidance / stories would help me. Started with a terrible itch. I noticed a white patch on my clitorial hood. I called my OB and they said it was likely a yeast infection as I had just come off antibiotics for an eye infection. They treated me by phone with a yeast infection pill (take one and another in three days if conditions have not improved). I took both. It did not work. Went in for an exam. My OB said my entire labia and my perinium were bright white. She said she is not sure what it is but she wanted me to try steroid cream and an anti-fungal cream. I tried that for two weeks. A little better but not much. I called again. She represcribed the steroid cream and said to use it ONLY for another week and if things were not better come back in. I did. The itch was almost completely gone but things did not “feel right” and I was scared to look. I had my husband look. He was “alarmed” and said I should go in. I did. She did an exam and said, “Well, we need to do a biopsy, you likely have a condition called LS or it could be skin cancer” (greeeeat)... so we scheduled my biopsy for this Monday. That was a week and a half ago. She said this cancer is “slow growing” so we had lots of time. I have since then gained the courage to look in the mirror at it. I’m trying to face head on whatever this is that is attacking me. I cried the first time I looked at it in a mirror. It looked foreign to me. White surrounds the inner walls of my labia / vulva and my perinium and anal area are all white and there are pink patches that look like tiny squiggles (maybe three). My right labia looks swollen and when I push on it I feel a squishy ball type of thing inside the skin. My OB cut me off of the steroid cream after my last visit. The symptoms had not disappeared completely so I started using PURE lavender essential oil directly on the tissue that day. The first time I put it on it burned like fire for five straight minutes. The itch had been returning once I stopped using that cream so I had to use something. I didn’t wipe it off. I laid down and breathed through it. The burn subsided to a beautiful relief. Pure relief!!! The next time it burned only a little and the next time less and less. I e been using it now for a few weeks and it has held the itch away completely. Nothing at all. No itch. Such a relief. I love lavender oil. Now my symptoms are tingling a few times a day and white white white. I’m worried about my results. I’m worried about the pain from the biopsy. I should say also that I am a mother of five. My youngest is two and my oldest fifteen. I had a tubal a year ago cause my husband of twelve years is a wuss Not sure if that could be related. I also had two abnormal paps in my 20s with the cervical dysplasia being removed caused by HPV. I’m 41 now. I’m scared. I’m a Mom. If my kids were raised I’d not be so worried. Any advice or guidance would be appreciated and even if I receive nothing in return, it helps to just put this “out there”. Thank you all in advance. I will troll around for some positive stories and will hope and pray for the best for myself and all of you. Thank you!! And I will reiterate, anyone suffering with LS (which I am guessing this is) should try (with their doctors ok I suppose) pure essential lavender oil. Maybe use a carrier oil. It’s worked wonders for my symptoms. Night and day difference. Thank you all again.
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In all the years that I have been posting on here I have never once read of anyone having cancer from LS, it is very very rare.
Take it easy.
I totally agree with guppy, you need to find a vulvar clinic or specialist that is knowledgeable in LS. When I first went to one doc he said it was yeast and treated me for several months. Then the white patches appeared and he did biopsy. It showed LS. He gave me a steroid cream (clobetasol), told me to use it twice a day for two weeks and then only if needed after that. He also told me it wasn't a strong steroid. Well he was wrong on both counts. When I went home and did research on LS I saw how wrong he was. I immediately found a specialist who is knowledgeable in LS and went to her. That was three years ago and with her help and her knowledge I have been able to keep the LS under control. I used clob twice a day for two weeks then went to twice a week for 9 months and then down to once a week which is what I am currently doing and will probably have to continue forever, but all is well. She said risk of cancer from LS is about 2-4% and she has only seen one case of cancer and that person did not follow instructions. Stay positive and good luck.
Hi there, I totally agree with guppy. Cancer is VERY rare. I would LOVE to have £ for every one of us LS sufferers that have been treated for thrush ! For a year in my case 😈.
The description you give sounds like LS all day long but you need to go to someone who knows what the hell they are talking about ! I cannot imagine the pain you endured with that pure lavender oil. You need to be on DERMOVATE/CLOBESTROL. Used every day for a month, then every other day for two weeks then twice a week as maintenance unless you have a flare up. It's very important to run in the steroid cream for at least 90 seconds. NO gynae/dermatologist EVER tells you that but its very important. You also need to use a barrier cream all the time. DO NOT USE VASELINE. I use HYDROMOL (put on at least 20 mins after steroid) this will moisturiser the area and feels so much more comfortable. It also stopped urine irritating/drying/ burning the skin. I also spray with water& bicarb solution after using the loo.
Lay off sugar, this affects a lot of us we have noticed. Stress is also a major cause its flare ups. Really hope this helps . Do not worry about cancer, I'd be amazed if you did have it. The white plaques should go in the first month of less usually though obviously everyone is different. Please let us know how you get on . You will get lots of support here. Most of us have learned so much more about LS and it's treatment from this forum than we ever have from any Dr or consultant. Good luck
Insane itching and white skin goes with LS. I also would get "lumps" etc before I got diagnosed with LS but once I started using steroid, I rarely got those lumps and sore pimples etc. anymore.
You should use the steroid to control LS. My white patch disappeared after using steroid.
However if you use steroid, be aware you will possibly get a negative biopsy result even if you do have LS.
Get yourself a decent gynaecologist who is informed about LS. I have a wonderful one. Makes a huge difference.
Sounds like it is LS. The white patches and itching are the symptoms for LS. Most Dr's familair with LS prescribe Clobetasol. It is a steroid that keeps it under control. Why a Dr. would say it is cancer is crazy. You need to find a Dr. that knows about LS and knows how to treat it. Vulva Cancer can happen, however if you manage the LS, highly unlikely. I use the Clob 3 times a week before I go to bed. I also use Estrace 3 times a week before bed to keep the skin healthy. I apply them on separate nights.The LS is inflammation in the deep tissues of the vulva and is caused by your immune system. I also have Psorasis on my hands and bottoms of feet that comes and goes. Also related to Immune System I am also Type 2 Diabetic. I think all of my conditions are related to my Immune system.
Alot of women on this post recommend using Borateem (Mule Team Detergent) as a sit bath. It helps alot of women. You mix 3 tb. of it with warm water and soak your bottom in it. The LS also affects the anal area. Not sure that I have the directions correct. I clean myself with wipes with aloe (frangrance free after I urinate and have bowel movement. Really helps. Also if I start getting some itching, I clean myself with the aloe wipes. I can't help wonder if women who had tubal ligations are at higher risk for LS. I had a tubal ligation in 1984 after my third child...I was 36. I only used birth control for 5 years in my early twenties and then none after that. My first symptoms began about 15 years ago with just itching. Thought it was a yeast infection. Then about 11 years ago, went for Pap and the Dr. was concerned about the white spots beginning to appear. Eventually went to another Dr. and he did not do a bioposy. He knew what it was. I now go to a female OBY Dr. She is on top of it. She assured me that since I keep it under control, that to not worry about vulva cancer. She said women who ignore the symptoms are the ones who might eventually develop vulva cancer. Hope this makes you feel better. There are so many women who are developing this. It seems like once women go thru menapause, it seems to happen.
I cannot even begin to express how grateful I am to read these thoughtful and informative responses. Thank you all SO much. I have felt very alone in all of this (until now) and I am beyond happy. I’m not certain why she did not prescribe the “Clob” you all refer to but I will ask her to prescribe it tomorrow. I was given tri-something??? She cut me off of it though as she said it will damage the delicate tissue. Hopefully she will be ok prescribing the “Clob”. I have never heard of a vulva clinic. Not sure we have those here. I’ve always just visited my OB. I’m assuming that is a term for a “planned parenthood” type of clinic?? I have Kaiser if that helps anyone understand the system I’m working with. I’m having my biopsy at 10:00 am tomorrow morning. I’m nervous but not as nervous as I was before reading your responses. It’s a “punch biopsy” and a “colposcope”. I read the recovery is awful. Hard to believe what you read. When I told my OB I was freaked about the pain from the biopsy she said, “Ah, it’s no big deal, you’ve had five vaginal births, this will be nothing in comparison, you will only feel a sting from the injections, piece of cake”. My Aunt who is a nurse told me otherwise. She said the injections will likely “hurt like a b***h” 😂 and to ask the nurse to squeeze my hand. I just want to get it over with. I hate needles. I really hate needles down there. No thanks. I’ll try the borax. It’s interesting about the sugar. I have noticed what feels like a flare up when I have red wine, beer, and heavy sugar (I had pecan pie and the next morning was bad). I also find it interesting about the tubal connection. I had mine one year ago. I wondered if there could be a connection. Perhaps this could be hormone connected by way of the tubal (even just mentally) shifting my hormones. I’ve also nursed babies for what feels like forever (5 kids x 18 months each) and I weaned my last little one last December. If there was some type of infection (HPV flaring up) I wonder if this could be my body fighting it? One of you mentioned this is inflammation caused my the immune response. I have started boosting my immune system and I’m taking probiotics. Hoping this all will subside with a combination of things you all suggest. Nice to have some positive words and reassurance. I do have estrace here that I was prescribed while nursing last year (pain after delivery) so I will try that too and see if it helps. I am grateful to you all. I had chills and tears in my eyes reading these. I finally don’t feel quite so broken and alone. Feel a little more feminin again and not quite so leper like 😉 I appreciate it very much. Appreciate you all very much. Thank you!!
Aw God bless you that's why we rush to answer because we've been there ! It's not the sort of thing you want to discuss even with a good friend. You feel so alone and hopeless , scared , mutilated so many emotions but mainly alone. Until you find this forum and realise there are probably thousands of women going through it and they know EXACTLY how you feel. It's a real comfort. I've not had a biopsy our children but I'd hazard a guess that it's no where near as bad as childbirth ! You got this in the bag Mammabear Good luck hon, keep us posted from your rubber ring lol 😉 xxx
Hi MamaBear, I'm so sorry to hear you've joined us, but you'll find a wealth of information, support and advice here. Many of us have been misdiagnosed, ignored and badly treated by the medical systems everywhere, I'm in the UK and it happens here too. Read 'An Experiment with Borax,' it's a thread in this discussion group. Also, make yourself a cup of tea and sit down to watch a video that's pinned at the top of this forum, it's by a Dr Goldstein, a specialist in LS. Think of it like Diabetes, it doesn't go away but it can be managed to make your life normal again. In time your care routines will become part of your life and you won't even notice them.
Here in the UK I'd advise someone to find a Vulval Dermatology clinic, they see a lot of LS. Not sure what you've got over there. Get Clobetasol ointment rather than cream, apparently the thing that makes the creams white can irritate, this goes for any product that you use down below. All the eczema products tend to come in cream or ointment versions. Always go for the ointment, it has a Vaseline-like texture, but don't use Vaseline, it won't do you any good.
Keep the area moisturised and don't use soap or anything with fragrances there, they will irritate you. Have a look on the threads here to see what people wash with, I don't think UK products are available where you are. I use a tub of over-the-counter stuff called Epaderm (not Epiderm, that's a different product) recommended for washing for Eczema sufferers, it's got no fragrance. Watch out, even things called 'Simple' tend to have fragrance in, read the ingredients. Many people use Emu oil, coconut, olive, jojoba or avocado oil after every toilet visit and at night. you can put a few drops of essential oils in them if you like. It's soothing and feels nice. You'll be more comfortable if you use a small spray bottle and rinse with water after every toilet visit, urine can irritate already sensitive skin. Just leave them in the bathroom and see how you get on.
Also everyone seems to react differently, so follow up the things suggested here but, if it's not for you, move on and try a different recommendation. In time you will find what suits you personally. Do keep checking and asking for advice, we are all here to help you, and each other. We all know what it feels like.
I use Borax and the itch went instantly. It's different for different people though. You only use a pinch or two, two much can be painful. I don't know why it works, but it does. Read the 'Experiment with Borax' thread though, and get the amount right.
Good luck with the biopsy, hugs and good thoughts to you.
I hope your kids are doing well. I raised four myself so I understand your title MamaBear. The loves of my life!
I hope you continue to do well and I thank you again for your information
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