OCD
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This is ocd hygiene related and I want to hear from people who have OCD anxiety. My sister has had bad ocd anxiety most her life and has gotten a lot better lately except the rally odd thing is that her ocd is still persistent somewhat yet a while ago she met a random off a site, which she new online for years only and wasted her virginity on him. Only 3 months ish later she then jumps into a relationship with a person she dated about 7 times. How can she have sex when it's very grotty when a person has hygiene ocd? I feel like shes been lying to my family. If she really has ocd hygiene how can she engage in such an act? She doesn't even like it anyways and considering the discussions she has had with me about the Male species and how she hates me, her actions are very contradictory
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Cherish25
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*Hates me, not me
Cherish25
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Sorry I am not sure how to edit on here, i meant to say considering how she hatemen
Cherish25
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Anyone know how to edit on here??
hypercat Cherish25
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Hi just because someone has hygiene ocd doesn't mean they don't want or have sex. She is probably using a condom which will protect her against nasty diseases. If this was the first time she has had sex then maybe she found out how much she enjoys it?
Why would she lie to you all these years? Now that doesn't make any sense unless you think she is just seeking attention or something? Maybe she said she doesn't like men coz she doesn't think she will ever get a bf, and this is a defence attitude?
In the absence to the contrary I would take her at her word if she is normally honest and genuine. There is not much you can do about it anyway. x
Cherish25 hypercat
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Thanks for your comment, good to see some one can comment on such a matter. I know for a fact she didn't like sex and is on the pill. I know the reasons she doesnt like men too so she is still very hypocritical. Saying one thing, then doing the complete opposite. She out of all people, is the last to expect such unforeseen behavior. I have lost all and utter disrespect
Cherish25
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Also, it makes 0 rational sense if one proclaims to have hygiene ocd then is able to engage in such activities that are ocd triggering eg kissing, you dont know what they have eaten and I know for a fact she has a major trigger around meat and this guy she is seeing isnt a vegetarian. Sex involves a whole lot of other "bugs". I do believe shes been lying to my mother and I all this time. One cant simply "get over" ocd like a click of the switch.