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Oh well

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Kayer
Kayer

Had my first blister pop up since being diagnosed and omg it’s sooo itchy but you know what. I accepted this and trying to be happy and move on with my diagnosis. Thank god I have a supporting loving boyfriend and we’re 19. He doesn’t care if he gets it because he loves me no matter what and I couldn’t ask for a better boyfriend a step dad to my daughter. I may had been mad at god and said why god why me. But maybe it was for the good. This diagnosis opened my eyes and I love my boyfriend even more than ever. I’ve known him for 5 years we’ve been dating for 4-6-5 months but he said 6 yrs haha but he’s even thinking about proposing life is good I can say

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  • haz83342
    haz83342 Kayer

    Posted

    Happy to hear

    From who did you get herpes??

    • Kayer
      Kayer haz83342

      Posted

      I’m pretty sure a one night stand with a co worker. He was acting weird that night and after having sex he stopped talking to me and at work he would smile at me or grin and I didn’t think nothing of it. I would try to have a convo but he would pretty much say he’s going through things that’s why he hasn’t replied or spoken to anybody.  I still see him nd I know 100% I got it from him but I don’t want a confrontation with him because we do work at the same facility and that would just put my business out there. So I just act like he doesn’t exist and just walk by him as if I never knew him. It’s pretty messed up that men are willing to do this to women and not have a care vice versa as well. I’m a very nice loving person and if he would of told me I wouldn’t had shamed him I would be understanding but it took me awhile to stop crying and taking test after test hoping it was wrong that it was a mistake. Karma is coming and he’ll get his. Until then I’m coping with everything and today I cried not because I had herpes2 but because my family is supportive and I know what to say in my vows one day at the chapel. Btw do you know anything to stop the itching and stings I get. I don’t want or take he anti viral so something at stores I can buy 
  • haz83342
    haz83342 Kayer

    Posted

    Im happy you have an understanding boyfriend. As he knows you got it from another guy. Im a man. 

    I believe that women have more symptoms than men. I dont use anything for pain as it is mild. May be another girl can be more helpful. 

    Good luck

    • Kayer
      Kayer haz83342

      Posted

      Ok thanks😊 and the symptoms are mild but still it’s annoying haha but enjoy your day and thank you for commenting on my posts 

    • haz83342
      haz83342 Kayer

      Posted

      You are welcome😀

      I like you are optimistic

  • Guest
    Guest Kayer

    Posted

    Hey Kayer, 

    I was wondering if I can get in contact with you about this if that’s okay? 

  • Guest
    Guest Kayer

    Posted

    Hey Kayer, 

    I was wondering if I can get in contact with you about this if that’s okay? 

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