Pain at tip

like what?

flow was fine before cysto,doing another one tomorrow,one uro says prostafitis,tje other one dosemt know,im 49,blood comes and goes,never been am infection

Is flow bad after cysto?  How nuch blood? Just pinkish urine? After my cystoscopy I had discomfort for a while. And flow got a little worse. I also started to have pain in my perinium when sittimng down. I don't know if it came from cysto or not. Since uro says prostatitis is he giving you antibiotics? Did he do a urine or prostate fluid culture?

first flow test after cysto is tomorrow,waiting for urine culture to come back,pcp diagnosed proatatitis,and one uro says ic,blood is a trace that comes and goes,i have an enlarged prostate,and had a lot of symptoms before the cyato,and every symptom there is after,my life has been ruined

You're life isn't ruined, just have to make adjustments. Listen to the docs, double check everything they tell you. Don't let them talk you into a procedure you don't need.

my mind immediafely goes to bladder neck surgery or stricture

Its usually not as bad as it seems. I p*ssed blood ( not pink or red urine, BLOOD) for 10 days. I couldn't get in to see uro for 2 weeks. Thought for sure it was bladder cancer. I hind sight I should have gone to ER. The urgent care just gave abtibiotics and sent me home. My GP did what he could get me in earlier but he failed. 

have u ever heard of this symptom?

Blood from cysto work usually goes away in 2-3 days, and only results in few drops in urine. If you've been bleeding for that long you should definitely go see a specialist right away.

no bleeding just that pain at the tip once every other day thats like a pinching feeling right at start of urination