painful sex and terribly itchy skin
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help needed. Sex hurts, and then the anxiety of pain makes it put me off even trying. What have any of you done? My partner is normally understanding but as a man can only understand so much. Im due to be married soon and this is so upsetting. Apart from that the constant dry skin and itching is driving me nuts.
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Jan999 suzyjar
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suzyjar Jan999
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jayneejay suzyjar
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Not thrush is it ?
See a doctor hun
Jay x
jerry72101 jayneejay
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Hope this helps.
Jerry
jayneejay jerry72101
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thanks hun, i was only curious as to what the doc gave you..
incase it was something i hadnt heard of
i didnt like replens vag moisturiser, white and clumpy next day .. Ugh
but thanks for sharing
jay x
suzyjar
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jerry72101 suzyjar
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I have the same problem and it just started a few months ago. I don't want to go down the hrt route as yet I only have hot flashes and some night sweat. I don't suffer anything like these ladies on here. I got some over the counter gel like cream which I put on maybe twice a day. Went to doc. Gave me a moturising cream that you insert which is fine. When I comes to sex the Normal lubs like ky and the other massage lub nips at entrance. But once I sort of get going (sorry). It does ease off. I also read in a menapause book. More frequent helps !!!! Don't know about that.
I hope this has been of some use to you.
Good luck. Jerry
suzyjar jerry72101
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jayneejay suzyjar
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Premeno duo vaginally ovules are good
Moisturise vaginally ..
I am post meno and use these sometimes.
From stress no more uk site
I tried the replens thats awful for me turns white and clumpy Ugh
pjur woman glide is great too ..
Apply to him before aswell if you know what i mean ☺️
Jay x
suzyjar jayneejay
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jayneejay jerry72101
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good description ( nips at first) thats been me to a tee 😒
sometimes sore after too ..i wont say anymore 😞
oh to be a woman ..
Like you say theres stuff to help, its finding the right one
i am post meno now ( age 50) didnt have HRT but i use estriol cream
( ovestin cream and vaginal ovules on occassion too ) Gyno suggestion, it keeps vaginal skin plump and external bits plump and vag entrance skin healthy and not think. i dont like HRT for me as high risk, but this is so helpful for occassional use, desperate times ..
what was the cream the doc gave you jerry if you dont mind me asking
jay x
jayneejay
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Healthy and not thin ( i put not think ) durr..
jayx
jerry72101 jayneejay
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jayneejay jerry72101
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😊
jay x
Sus28 suzyjar
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it did work at one time but like some AV sufferers what works at one time turns into a sensitive cream another time.