Painless haemorrhoids for years - thinking of banding for aesthetic reasons?
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Hi everyone.
I am a 29 year old male, and I have had haemorrhoids for about ten years. I have approximately three of them internally, and they are only visible if I squat down and 'push' - so for example when having a bowel movement. This is when they 'bulge' out and look like cushions around the anal opening.
Over the course of ten years, they have flared up maybe three times. This is the only time they have been painful in any way.
I am considering having them banded so that they fall off, in the hope that my anal opening won't look so ugly... I was wondering what everyone's opinion on this is?
I have read some real horror stories about banding on the internet, but it would appear that in almost all of these cases the patients were already in pain with their haemorrhoids. I guess I'm holding onto the hope that since mine are not painful at all, the banding wouldn't be as horrific as others have suggested....
What do you think?
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amanda31789
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I had an internal and external haemorrhoid, and skin tags from old hems, which were not causing me too much bother, but I was finding it a problem when my IBS flared up and I wondered often if the internal one was making it more difficult for stools to pass. I found I needed ages to get clean after going to the loo because skin tags can hold on to stuff, and after having them for probably 20 years, I decided to get them sorted. In my case, banding was not going to be suitable and so I went for a Haemorroidectomy.
I did not read anything before the op, because I wanted to avoid terrifying myself with horror stories. I went into it with no knowledge apart from the information sheet the hospital gave me at my pre-op assessment.
I am now 3 weeks post-op, and healing really well. I have gone down a dress size due to changing my diet and finally doing something to sort out my IBS (the reason I got piles in the first place).
I have been back to gentle normal activities since day 13 post-op, so the info sheet was right; they advise 2 -3 weeks off work. I am not going to lie, it hurts - a lot. The first week is the worst, the second week for me was much better and now, 3 weeks post op, I can sit down properly as the swelling has gone right down.
I can't comment on banding as I have never had it. I have read posts about people who have found it to be unhelpful in the long run so I would advise you to get a referral to a good consultant and see what they have to say. The NHS may decide it is better to just have 'em off, but look into other methods, too... some hospitals are doing another less painful surgery that does not have such a long recovery period. It is called THD PROCEDURE. Ask your Doctor to explain HALO, along with Haemorroidectomy and banding. Banding or a sclerotherapy might be worth a try first, but the consultant will know best.
I was not having pain with mine pre-op, but the surgery to have them literally cut off hurts like childbirth EVERY DAY for several days afterwards. I was regretting having it done for a week! However, now I feel like it gave me a head start in getting my diet right and sorting out my IBS and for that I am glad. I have never been so regular!
I hope this helps and good luck whatever you decide.
Mandy x
alicia_26911 amanda31789
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Hi there Amanda
I'm currently 19 years old. I have IBS and I have been suffering with piles for two years now. I only really gave it any attention after a year. I didn't know what it was i stopped having caffiene as i realized it made it worse. I told my mother and ever since iv just kept trying home remedies and the creams. But it's just always there. It doesn't always bug me though but I feel so scared that I'll be stuck with it for life but I'm also so scared to go to the doctor and check it out. I get so nervous and freaked out just thinking about it all. It's so embarrassing.
The last time I went to the doctor, they said that IBS wouldn't have given me piles, but I don't see how that can be, cause to me it feels very obvious that, that was the reason. They didn't do anything about it that day as they were seeing to other issues and I practically begged the doctor to discharge me that night because I hate staying in hospitals especially because of all my stomach issues. It makes it so much worse. I guess I have to get it sorted out at some point. I have dropped out of college due to all my issues. It became too much, I eventually couldn't make it to go too often and missed so much lectures and work. I have to decide what I'm going to do next year and I feel so doomed because my mom doesn't get what I go through daily and how hard it is so she doesn't understand and it affects me so much and I'm so nervous to go back to that campus life. What if I can't make it again and being at home for a year has really depressed me and also made me feel like my body has become too used to being in its comfort zone and now I'm even more doomed.
I'm reaching out to you because you have IBS and experienced living with piles.
Any advice?
I get really depressed about this whole thing. I hate being so limited in life. But yet I'm still so nervous to get it sorted. I kind of have anxiety about hospitals and doctors so avoid it all as much as possible...but how long can I let myself live with piles? Iv read how bad it can get and I'm so worried about it all, I stress and worry that I'll get even worse and things could go wrong from not treating it.
I hope to hear from you soon!
fari80912
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i had the same piles like you no pain only once in a year i feel pain or bleeding but i go only one time a day toilet for bowel for a 30 minuets or 45 minuets it also makes me lazy and i feel tired all the time.
i had my surgery almost 3 weeks back and now feeling batter active compare to before its up to you the first week of surgery will be very painful also depends on your doctor how he treats your surgery if all will go good you will recover with in 3 to 4 weeks for the rest of your life.
good luck....
trex
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I have similar condition as you, i think it is large though, its not painful and doesnt bleed but sometimes can cause discomfort, makes me rush to the toilet, and soiling. It tries to come out when i push during a bowel movement. I dont know how many I have it just feels like maybe one big one - how do you tell how many it is since its internal ? Actually alot of time it used to bulge out, at the moment its much less than before I am trying to control it with diet.
I am not going under the knife. Even though having it chopped off is good for the long term, those horror stories are real. SEVERE EXCRUCIATING PAIN and INCONTINENCE is definately a NO-NO-NO for me. Forget the pain for 1 week even one minute is very bad. Unless I am kept in hospital which they wont do or im at home on a drip of morphine and entonox for the whole period of pain - its a NO for me.
I have found though, improving diet does help but you have to be persistent with a strong will power. Mine used bulge out much more before but it bulges out much less now. I feared this surgery and I have improved my diet. Most important is plenty of water.
I know the options out there and the consequneces. I dunno if banding will work for me. If it doesn't doctors trick patients into banding under general aneathestic and then cut them off. In the UK they use an outdated method developed in "1937" developed by two doctors Milligan and Morgan which is not sutured and its called the Milligan-Morgan Technique. As well as the pain when going for a bowel movement i heard it feels like you are being cut with glass very hard inside, some people almost passout in the toilet or "scream" in agony. If you have a family in your house then this a BIG No
There are other techniques like: Laser, Atomizing, Harmonic Scaplel, HALO/TMD but but not all are available in the UK and half the procedures are a marketing gimmick thats why doctors consider an outdated ancient procdure to be the 'gold standard'.
What is the meaning of 'gold-standard' ? its just a bunch of cute words doctors play with patients under the knife and leave them in pain - dont get me wrong but those pain medications do more bad than good.
Of all this time since 1937 only recently have they developed the HALO procedure and not all surgeons are willing to use it because of lack experience, resources and funding.
Me personally, I wouldn't even go near the knife. I would try my best using diet or alternative methods. If you are persistent in a modified diet than you can slowly shrink them, it will just take time but its better than the after effects of surgery.
I would say let them develop some new technique or make HALO/ligation common than open surgery then i will go for it. I cant post links in here the moderator will punish me for it but heres somethings to consider before surery:
Early Complications Include:
1) Severe postoperative pain, lasting 2-3 weeks. This is mainly due to incisions of the anus, and ligation of the vascular pedicles.
2) Wound infections are uncommon after hemorrhoid surgery. Abscess occurs in less than 1% of cases. Severe necrotizing infections are rare.
3) Postoperative bleeding.
4) Swelling of the skin bridges.
5) Major short-term incontinence.
6) Difficult urination. Possibly secondary to occult urinary retention, urinary tract infection develops in approximately 5% of patients after anorectal surgery. Limiting postoperative fluids may reduce the need for catheterization (from 15 to less than 4 percent in one study).
Late Complications Include:
1) Anal stenosis.
2) Formation of skin tags.
3) Recurrence.
4) Anal fissure.
5) Minor incontinence.
6) Fecal impaction after a hemorrhoidectomy is associated with postoperative pain and narcotic use. Most surgeons recommend stimulant laxatives, or stool softeners to prevent this problem. Removal of the impaction under anesthesia may be required.
7) Delayed hemorrhage, probably due to sloughing of the vascular pedicle, develops in 1 to 2 percent of patients. It usually occurs 7 to 16 days postoperatively. No specific treatment is effective for preventing this complication, which usually requires a return to the operating room for one or more stitches.
This is nightmare from hell but in real.
There is a phrase 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it' means 'One of the quickest ways to break something is to fix it when it ain't broken'
So, unless it is causing a lot of pain and bleeding i wouldnt go near the knife.
I have watched some real videos of the procedure and it is horrific they mess-up your anus. (The opening and that is a BIG NO-NO). The anus is cut open and dialated and the internal cuts which cause the severe pain.