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I had suspected that my girlfriend was suffering from depression for quite a while but everytime I brought the subject up she changed the conversation.
However a week after christmas 2 days after her 30th birthday she told me she was unhappy and wanted to break up with me when only 2 days previous she was telling me how muched she loved me. 4 days on from this she conceded that she also thought she was suffering from deppression but still wanted to be on a break as she was not sure she wanted to be with me. she has started the counsiling process but I just dont know what to do I feel in limbo all the time and she is going out drinking with her firiends. I am trying to be patient and supportive but the whole situation is making me misserable and I cant always put a brave face on things. one minuite she talks as if we will be getting back together by talking about future plans then its the complete opposite. The counciling process has identified that her deppression may have been caused by the fact that when our 14month old daughter was born she was in critical condition in intensive care for a while, although she is ok now. I just do not know what to do or how to handle this as I love her very much but it feels like that she would rather talk or be with her friends or anyone else other than me and its killing me. She lives part time with me but escapes at any point she can.
if anyone can offer advise I would apreciate it greatly.
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