partner of someone with anxiety, please need to talk
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I've been living with my husband's severe anxiety for ten years, he left me just after we married after 6 years but now together again trying to sort things out, learn his triggers, move forward etc etc.
I really need to find some friends online who understand. I love him but it's so hard to cope with. I just need to share and talk with people who feel like this. We have just discovered we are being thrown out of our rented flat and it is awful. He is not sleeping, he hashas no job, it is very tough.Please talk to me.
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ten211218 katapanda
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Sarah812 ten211218
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Aspinan katapanda
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it must be very tough for you both but he has a big advantage in so much as he has your support which is worth everything.
Can I ask whether your husband is on any sort of medication or has done CBT?
I think with your support and the right treatment you can both beat this illness.
Have you been to see Citizens Advise about the issue over housing, if you have children then your council is obliged to house you.
im guessing your bring evicted due to rent arrears, CAB may be able to negotiate with the landlord to agree a payment plan?
Its great that you are looking to learn and get through this together, and there is lots of resources and meds to help.
Feel free to message me abd I will provide whatever help, advise and support I can.
im just coming out of a relapse of anxiety and depression, mine is genetic and ive suffered on and off for all my adult life, so I consider myself qualified by experience when it comes to depression and anxiety.
Your husband can get on top of this and beat it, especially if he has your support.
Neil
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tracie20455 katapanda
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SMF08 katapanda
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Anxiety is really awful to deal with but it doesn't have to be. Has your husband ever tried some medicine or therapy? I am going through therapy myself and have improved massively and I am only half way through my sessions!
Please don't be worried or scared there are always options.
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john32948 katapanda
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i know i wouldn't be here if it wasn't for her.
just remember it's not your fault,it's an illness you both have to deal with and if he doesn't see it that way then you have to start thinking about yourself.
i'm unlucky in having an awful illness but lucky in having someone who loves me no matter what.
i hope you find happiness and your husband gets better.
John.
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