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Penis entering vagina but feeling of going to nowhere

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sad54331
sad54331

Dear all,

Me and my boy friend plan to get married but there is a thing that we cant ignore before the true marrige. I am worried so much and dont know should I keep going or stop our plan. Please help me I really appriciate your advice.

Im a Asian girl and my bf is European, as well as I have a small vagina and his penis is big. Everytime when we have sex, at first the penis is hardly to enter my vagina and when it inside mine, I didnt feel hurt any more but as well as he said he couldnt feel anything. He said he felt my vagina didnt wrap his penis at the top of it (like going to no where), maybe the reason of it is my vagina is short(we guess). His penis only can come and become harder when we are on doggie position. But both of us do not satisfy with it, I only enjoy when we in traditional position and he did not enjoy much when we had sex, just to make me happy. Sometimes he cant come even we on doggie, so I need to use hand job to help him.

Few days ago, we had sex after 7 months of long distance love. At first, it is hard to enter but then he came after doggie position as before. After that we had  sex 2 more times but my vigina get very wet (may be I didnt have sex after long time), he enter easily but couldnt feel my vagina wrap his penis and he couldnt come.

We are worried about that if we can maintain happy life without good sex.

I had sex before with my exbf, his penis is small but we both enjoy it. So I think my vagina is not loose.

Furthermore, my current bf used to have a hard life so before meeting me he spent 33 years of his life alone and working hard, no girl friend at all, but he has started doing a lot of hand job himself since he was 18. Sometimes he asked me to show my ass and make him come via skype when we are in different country. He loves watching porn and he said the actor reflected himself  was Don Jon.

Please advice me what should we do to have a better sex life or at least give me advice if you were in my situation.

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  • james88919
    james88919 sad54331

    Posted

    So has your boyfriend ever had intercourse with another woman before you? And if so did he have this problem? You could try Kegel exercises for yourself to see if that would tighten things up or sometimes if you stimulate yourself while he is inside you that can help.
  • AchyFace
    AchyFace sad54331

    Posted

    Sorry, but I am just going to state my opinion. There is likely absolutely nothing wrong with your vagina. Maybe you could see a OB/GYN as you need a pap smear if you have had sexual relations and are 21 yrs old. Recent studies show that no matter what the boys say, average men's penis size is 5.7 inches long.  You have had satisfying sex with a previous partner. What is this " He can't feel my vagina wrap around his large penis" ?? except when entering from behind. All I can say is you better love the heck outta this guy if this is the start of your marriage. Even if you do love him, this is a huge (no pun intended) obstacle to have to take on. Most couples  struggle with erectile dysfuction after years of satisfying sex and many abandon the marriage. Think of YOUR satisfaction in life. Do you really believe it is about your "small vagina"?

  • Peanut1950
    Peanut1950 sad54331

    Posted

    I googled that about porn and hand job.  It said they get addicted to that and that is why they can't come.  Your vagina being small and himm being big is not the problem.  Most men would want a tight vagina.  I'm not sure, but I think that birth canal is 6 inches and isn't that where he puts it.  I think I would ask my doctor or sex therapist.  I'd get this fixed bwefore marriage.

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