penis glands head/glans change of color

Did you perhaps use different soap?

No I have not , but I’m wondering if it’s going to stay this color 

To correct myself: I ment, have you been checked for not having lichen schlerosus? It's too early in the morning for me to spell correctly). I'm not a doctor, but there's nothing on your photos that reminds me of canser, although five percent of those with BXO develope canser. The condition is more common in women than men, but maybe you should seek advice at somebody who's got knowledge about skin conditions. Your doctor needs to be blind unless he takes notice there's some differences in the pigmentation of the skin. please excuse my bad English. :-)

Hello Herman! 😊 Perhaps being worried influences on your appetite and makes you eat less than before? When people have much on their mind and stresses it can make you eat too much or too little. Skincanser or penilecanser would appear differently, I presume. Your skin doesn't seem unhealthy, it seem to have a change in the pigments, more of a loss of pigments. That seem to me as something totally different. I hope that somebody can give you the answer that's needed to ensure you that this is nothing to worry about.

Who know I been to 2 diffent urologist and one  dermatologist  all 3 say nothing to worry about . But my 30 pound  weight lose and  never getting hungry make me worry that it is  penis  cancer .. I have a ct scan of stomach area that all clear and also had a gastro doc tell me it nothing to do with  my stomach .