Penis sensitivity, Irritation Impossible to engage in any sort of sexual activity PLEASE READ

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Hi I have come onto this forum in hopes of getting some opinions on what I should do on my situation. For the past 5 years I have struggled to have any form of a sexual relationship or shall I say a sexual relationship where im the one receiving. This is in large part due to the fact that my penis can become very sensitive and so even hands being on the glans of the penis or a mouth can be too much at a time. Sex for the time being has also been a no brainer because of this. These symptoms collectively have helped lead to the end of multiple of my relationships. This has f****d me up mentally for years with my sense of self and being a man. My self confidence also took a tremendous hit as I ultimately long for deeper connection with my partners. I have seen doctors and urologists and its all the same thing either everything looks fine and nothing seems to be of concern or I should just get circumcised. Now I could realistically just go about doing something like that but circumcision is one of those things where there's no going back. SO imo id rather be one hundred percent certain before making an actual decision. I can say though that things did used to be much worse things kind of have improved after I spent countless days pulling my foreskin back letting the head breath, making sure my glans experience contact with my hands or the running of water over it in the shower; However, it all leads to the same thing when its go time. It always becomes overly sensitive and unpleasant. I feel like I'm rolling a dice, sometimes it can feel actually pleasant and other times it's just sensitive and hurts. Obviously sensitivity is a good thing I know that, but for me sensitivity isn't good when it hurts. I really hope that someone can bring some light to my situation and hopefully these pictures maybe can shed some light on what's actually going on so I can finally put this chapter of my life to rest. SYMPTOMS: Head of penis especially the tip around the pee hole can be very uncomfortable and looks like there is also irritation around there as well. Sensitivity along the sides of my penis glans on left and right usually with a bit of discolouration on the right side. also the front side of the glans the one that you look down at can also be very sensitive (uncomfortable when rubbing it on surfaces ie: skin not the other side though that is where I actual feel somewhat pleasure but other areas around the glans just seem all overly sensitive and a bit inflamed. Hope this kind of narrows things down. If you need any more answers ill be checking this discussion page quite frequently. Thank you so much you're input is much appreciated!

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  • Posted

    how did this start mate? i would try some numbing cream

  • Posted

    i have the exact same issue. it starts off fine but then too much stimulation and it feels super uncomfortable. sometimes if i keep going i just cant hold it anymore and i start to urinate

  • Posted

    It looks a very normal penis just lots of nerve endings that seems oversensitive. Its a matter of dulling them or desensitizing these over sensitive nerve endings like I did. It will take time so best to have some aids along the way but its all worth it in the end!

    When showering don't use soaps just retract your foreskin and rub gently your glans and inner foreskin with lukewarm water. Allow this water to splash on your glans for a couple of minutes and return to your normal bathing.

    After drying lay on your bed and apply gently pure organic coconut oil (very small amount) over your glans with your forefinger as well as the inner foreskin for a couple of minutes.

    Apply gentle pressure and slowly all over!

    Once completed replace the foreskin over the glans. Sometimes I masturbate very slowly by pushing the foreskin back and over the glans and allowing sometimes a finger to massage the glans as well!

    Do this overtime and gradually the glans will desensitize! Also if you require to have intercourse, use a numbing cream your doctor can order and a condom!

    Try all this and please try and keep your foreskin as its there for a purpose!

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      ...forgot to mention keep the foreskin back if loose enough and comfortable for 4-6 hrs each day especially whilst at home and after applying the small amount of coconut oil rubbed over the glans uncomfortable as it may seem, will help to desensitize! Don't forget to forward the skin for the rest of the day!

      Changes won't happen overnight but after a couple of months you will enjoy the benefits! Make sure you find a partner who is very supportive and who might help in that area!

      This is what I did and she was very gentle with her tongue on my glans and masturbating me. She actually gave me back confidence which improved things!

      Let me know how you go and hopefully things will improve!

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