People might be thinking something about me which isn't true?

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Sometimes i get my words mixed up, and others think i'm being a bit weird, more recently i was accused of sounding almost awkward and gay. I can tell you not that i am hetero, and if i wasn't i can assure you i would admit it, but i think some people might now think im a bit on the other side cos i said something that was meant as a joke, but it seemed to have got misinterpreted, and as i was quite stoned at the time i didn't real deal with it, and the room fell a bit awkward. I suffer with anxiety and this is why the whole thing is bothering me. If i was gay/bi it wouldn't, but the fact that i'm not and some people may think i am now is bothering me a bit. Should i care? Cheers

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  • Posted

    Defo don't care. You are you and that's perfectly fine. We have all said things by accident or I came out weirdly. They will have been joking with you.

    Don't worry about it smile

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    Hi it's nothing to be ashamed of if you was love I've questioned myself in the past but only cos of my anxiety it plays with ur head it made me think at 1 point i didn't love my son and partner anymore it attacks people different it's an horrible thing to suffer I've thought about stuff i really haven't wanted to before it picks at the stuff it knows gets to you the most don't worry about it too much ino it's hard not to but just left it off just think if the anxiety wasn't there would it bother you probably not ul learn to deal with it better the more you understand it x
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    What really matters is what you think about yourself and not what you might think others think of you.

    In any event one's sexuality is a private and personal thing, and has nothing to do with anyone else, so if I were you I really wouldn't give it a second thought and just get on with living and enjoying your life.

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    I know when you suffer from anxiety every little thing we say and do can play on our minds for days after the incident.  Truthfully, given the situation (I assume the others were just as stoned) that most of them don't even remember what you said.  If some do, you definitely should not be bothered by what they think, that is, if they think anything at all.  Were you teased after or during the incident?  
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      Hi skyebeth, yeah i hope that's the case. Erm they did say that i'm acting 'so awkward' at the time. This is really dragging me down though, i don't want people to think things that aren't true of me. My life just seems like one big worry to the bloody next...
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    Should you care about what the idiot sheeple thing about you? Hello no. Be yourself and be proud.
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