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Thank you all for your kind and helpful ideas, but the truth is now I dont want to carry on like this, my neighbour summed up every thing/my feeling, "If the doctors cant help you because your so allergic to every thing they give you. stop going and seeing them but please stop crying about it" when you come over for a coffee. That hurt like a slap in the face, so now I feel I cant go over to hers any more for a coffee. I did not realise that I was crying/ moaning all the time when I was with her. I know she is a very hard person she rules her home with the iron rod, but she was there for me when my partner died. (no hugs but she made sure I had milk and bread when my partner was rushed into the hospice). Now Im possible losing my job because of the PHN. My children live 20 miles away want me to move but I dont want to so now they are not prepared to come over if I call them for comfort, they have their own families now, and I have a choice move to there town or stay where I am but wont help me.
Well I want to say again thank you for all your help here on line, I wish you all good health. Jocelyne
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