PHN Survival Skills
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Having deal with PHN now for 7 years it still is important to me to share information with others that are afflicted by this terrible condition or with others that suffer from chronic pain. Important because it is reassuring is to hear how others are impacted and trying to cope in their lives. It is terrible to constantly have to turn down or cancel social engagements because you cannot bare the pain, are so distracted that you can't focus on a coversation or do an activity that you enjoyed before. You get tired of responding to people "how do you feel" "how is it going" and many times you dont look that bad. One doctor said PHN is like the pain of cancer but without the relief of death. Not looking for sympathy from others but it is tough on family and friends given they dont really understand. I tell people now best the pain of a stinging nestle and worst is like a bad burn/scalding and rubbing sandpaper on it. People also dont understand (as I dont as well) why it strikes when it does. Everyday for me - but usually later in day after I have had to much irritation from the clothes. I want to say thank you to a number of people on this site for giving me my sanity back.
thanks
jim
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steve_1 jim66082
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On a good day, it reduces to an ache running down the left side of my spine, but even this gets worse as the day goes on and by the evening it feels like restless leg but in the spine and believe my it is most unpleasant. I find though that it follows a pattern if I'm in for a rough time, first I feel as though I've been bitten then after a few days I feel like it's sunburn and then the real pain kicks in.
Tramadol taken one at a time each hour until the feeling becomes bearable is the way I manage it, with one Amitriptyline before bed.Trouble is, if I take too much (say three capsules in 2 hours) I am Zombied the next morning. It's a trade off.
I too get wound up when people think I,m looking well "(you mdon't look ill to me)"
croft4Penny steve_1
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Right now, I'm sitting with a top on, as I do most of the time when I'm alone. When the top goes on, the Lidocairne cream goes on as well
I sure hope you fight it off!!
steve_1 croft4Penny
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I'm 65 now and first suffered at about 56ish.
You've made my day.
atul99940 jim66082
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Thanks
Atul
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jocelyne44618 croft4Penny
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im 62 next week and live in Cambridge UK
ianmac_45 jocelyne44618
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jocelyne44618 ianmac_45
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ianmac_45 jocelyne44618
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jocelyne44618 ianmac_45
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jocelyne44618 ianmac_45
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Take care gentle hugs Jocelyne Cambridge UK
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angie80092 jim66082
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Does anything make it better? Any cream, medication, vitamins? Anything? I am 39 years old and have had this for a year now and can not imagine living with this pain for the rest of my life. Has it gotten better at all? Do you have many good days or are they all bad. Looking for answers... thank you! Hope it goes away for you soon!
steve_1 angie80092
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Actually, just worked out I've had it for 9 years, it does improve with time or maybe I've just got used to it.
One question that you should answer, is it just PHN or do you suffer (as I did/do), recurring shingles which is an autoimmune problem and can lead to to you getting other problems (as it did with me) like Polymialgia Rhumatica.
jim66082 angie80092
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I had one doctor in his 80s that actually hugged me and said "I am so so sorry but I have had patients that had some improvement after 5 years". He was right there was some improvement where I actually have say 4 to 8 hours on some days that are "pain free" meaning still pain but not distracting to the point where you cant do anything. I was lucky I worked for an employer with good benefits. However I had been promoted to a senior position (300 staff) and being ill or not up to any given day was just not on. I ended up on disability - but also taught for a year as a kind of alternate employment opportunity that I was thankful for given the hours where quite discretionary and allowed me to "hide", rest etc as needed. However the entire experience was devastating in giving up ones career to this ailment. In terms of disability if you have it - a long road. I was fortunate that here in Canada I also got disability from the government - they didn't fight me, however it took a lot of effort to deal with the insurance company that my employer has. Be strong and be clear about the pain. I have both deep pain and surface pain - frequency, duration and intensity are all different. It is important you document it and be clear - it isn't just "pain" it is complex pain that varies during the day. I have done all the drugs/neurostimulator implant etc. Now it is primarily narcotics and various topical creams. However some days are totally wiped out other days are more managable. THe problem for employment, volunteer work, social engagements is that you never know how much capacity you will have in any given day to do something. Plus no one understands what it is like. I do realize some people have it worse with trigeminal nerve pain for example. FOr seniors PHN is the leading cause of suicide as a result of chronic pain. I think for cancer unfortunately the pain in many cases is short lived along with the person. PHN is not terminal. I even went for accupunture, had botox injections, had hypnosis and mindfullness based therapy. THe last two did help to some extent but is basically about zoning out when the pain is really bad - you still cant do anything while zoned out. I also heard marijuana helps - i take the pill form but it isn't the full range of drugs that you get from the "weed" . I wish I could be more positive about it all - one changes their lives to cope but the impact is still huge. Given you are at the 2 year mark and relatively young that will be to your advantage in dealing with this. I could not even bare the feel of a shower for years but in the last year have been able to shower again and not be in terrible pain from it. There are experiemental studies using ketamin infusions into the brain to disrupt or rewire the pain pathways which is showing some success. For me I wish I could have a topical that would be more numbing but that doesn't seem to be possible. I even asked for third degree burns or frostbite in the hope that it would totally destroy the nerves so they would feel nothing. However was told that wasn't possible although thermal distruction is used on occasion but it has to be a guaranteed terminal condition before that would be done. I also tried the chili peper capsaicin. Went to florida to be treated with Quetenze given not availalbe yet in Canada. It was the most painful procedure I have had in my life - truly 2 hours of agonizing at a 9 and 10 on the pain scale. I was actually clawing at the walls just to do something. Later was told many patients are actually put under in the hospital before the product is applied. It didn't give me any relief - maybe for a few days. However everything is very specific to the individual - what works for me or doesn't may or may not work for you. Keep trying and feel free toask me questions. Perhaps this site and provide some of us with the understanding we are not suffering alone. take care jim
croft4Penny jim66082
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c25272 croft4Penny
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I use the patches not the cream. I can wear the patches in the day. I don't think its auto immune. I had a few courses of antibiotics prior to the shingles outbreak. Although pernicious anaemia does run in my family, I've been tested for that and it's not that.
kimberly36176 jim66082
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I FINALLY have found something that works. It's a Spinal Cord Stimulator. I have gone through the trial and have the implant scheduled for Nov. 12th. It's the first time all year I jabber had relief and can wear a bra and sleep without pain. If you have tried everything and feel hopeless, I can tell you there is an option. They say it only works on 50% of PHN patients and feeling blessed to have something. Thank God I have fantastic insurance because it's not cheap. I know surgery is going to suck but at this point worth it. Hope you can find relief as this is the only place I feel people actually understand what I go through on daily basis.
jocelyne44618 angie80092
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He told me that I must come off the Tramodole straight away because the tramodole is counter acting with the Gabapentin and amitriplene.
I am also on a patch of 125 mg for my arthritas. But I do hope angie your meds are sorted to help you soon take care Jocelyne My days are very mix, it also depends on what I am doing in the day time, as its true if you stress even just going shopping or trying to hurry with things yes it hurts and all you want to do is go to bed and cry. Take care Jocelyne Cambridge UK
frances61946 kimberly36176
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Hi Kimberly,
I'm very keen to know if the SCS has worked for you?? My mum has had PHN for 2 and a half years now. Nobody has mentioned this treatment to her. We are in the UK. After reading your post I have urged her to mention it next time she sees the pain specialist. She has it in exactly the same place as you (cannot wear a bra) and I have hope that she might be helped with this treatment. If you could let me know I would be so grateful. I just want to help her to feel better. It is such an evil illness.
Fran xx