Physical pain and mentally exhausted
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so i suffered with an anal fissure for years trying all sorts of topical treatments and nothing worked until i finally had LIS surgery which cured me of the fissure but i am now suffering with multiple internal hemmorhoids which is causing pain and incontinence, the incontinence is causing extreme itching i am mentally exhausted, i cant live like this for the rest of my life, im only a 27 year old man, my fiance left me a few months ago and i just want to get on with life, be there for my kids and meet a nice girl but i feel like im stuck until i get this healed, after years of pain im starting to lose hope i know there are options for hemmorhoids but im scared ill never get better, please if youve been in a similar situation health wise id love to hear your story especially if you overcame it and came out the other side in good health, i dont want to live like this.
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Jasmine1224 josh88795
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so sorry to hear you're still experiencing issues back there. i am 9+ year chronic fissure here myself , along with on and off internal extrnal hemmorhoids, constant constipation, pelvic floor dysfunction. i have used all creams/compunds under the sun and they used to work alonside pelvic floor therapy but more recently had EUA fissurectomy and botox. on month two still healing being positive and taking it day by day.
not sure the extent of the incontenince but usually after each BM or occurence i do use a bidet and then A warm to hot sitz bath (the one that goes in/on the toliet) for 15-20 minutes. this usually helps relax the muscles back there and increase the blood flow to help minimize the hemmoroids. when i get itchy back there the culprit is usually moisture of some kind - i make sure to fully dry everything back there with either hair dryer on cool setting andor bunched soft tp placed and left till dry or pat dry very gently - no wiping or any kind should be done back there. i also use B sure pads when hemorrhoids are causing issues. these catch andy if the mositure back there. diet is very important and plays a big role in my issues.
i hope things get better. take care