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Please help, I’m scared ! Please read, all details are 100% truth

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danielle19744
danielle19744

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I had protected sex three days ago, i don't know who he's been with for the last 3-4 months... which is how long its been since the last time we had protected sex. first time, oral was involved, i freaked out because i am deathly afraid of the std herpes... I got tested without having any symptoms and everything came back negative. this time oral was not involved besides kissing... we used a condom but i jerked him off before he put it on and then during intercourse i touched myself (clit area), without washing my hands again... i just recently did blood work to double check after our first time, this was before we had unexpected sex again, it came back negative... i have an appointment to see the gynecologist on the 31st, the last time i was seen and was swabbed it was 5weeks after our first time and all test results were negative as well. I figured since i scared my self the first time and was wrong, i shouldnt worry so much... but now im doing it again, and looked and looked for any possibilties and seen these bumps... im not sure if they've always been there or not.... its only in these areas (outside of labia crevices?) at the moment... no other symptons besides this visual scare at the moment... any thoughts?

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  • tiff18876
    tiff18876 danielle19744

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    omg im dealing with the same thing !its so nerve wrecking. I seen my gyn and she said it all looks normal. I went to get tested and told them to include hsv in my blood test and guess what? they tested for everything but that. gonna go get it done though. Also mine are always there but sometimes more noticeable than other times

    • mar7
      mar7 tiff18876

      Posted

      they don't include an hsv test in standard sti screenings if the patient is asymptomatic. this is because herpes tests are notorious for resulting in false positives. if you're having an outbreak they can test your blood, or better yet, swab you to confirm. otherwise they aren't going to test you bc it may not he reliable

    • nikki95253
      nikki95253 mar7

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      2years ago i got a blood test (IGG) just cause i was curious thinking it would be negative and i made it worse cause i tested positive. my doc said i could of been exposed 20 years ago. i nor my husband have never had symptoms but because of me stupidly getting this test im always looking. and my sex drive has decreased dramatically. i want to get retested to make sure if it was a true positive or not but im scared

  • cc93887
    cc93887 danielle19744

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    thats fordyce spots girl. also dont put any faith into condoms or protection against herpes, you can still easily get it with protection. if you're deathly afraid i suggest you remain celibate.

  • danielle19744
    danielle19744

    Posted

    thank you ladies, much appreciated!

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