Please help us this herpes
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Monday night shaved and had sex with my partner been together 3 years no issues
Tuesday fly across the country
wed changed soaps due to travel
Thursday i got super sweaty and chafed at very top of thighs/bottom of butt notice what appeared to be a ingrown hair (pulled out hair)
Friday afternoon started to feel slight burning when peeing (felt like a UTI)
over the weekend it got worse and spiked a fever for one day and body aches and a fee blisters/ulcers
had blood test on Monday for syphilis and herpes 1&2 antibodies
Tuesday they both come back negative
this is what it looks like today is it hereps my anxiety wont stop 
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becky38488 britt81899
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blood tests arent good for herpes test especially if this is your first time feeling this way the incubation period is 14 days so it wouldnt even be in your blood at this point. definitely get the sores swabbed as soon as you can. is it really painful? peeing, when something rubs against the sores, walking?
lee18618 britt81899
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def looks like hsv but go get a swab done to be sure. blood test arent accurate
lloy62282 britt81899
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Not to scare you but I was just recently diagnosed with Herpes 3 weeks ago and these ulcers are extremely similar to what mine looked like. They became extremely painful. Go to the ER and have them swabbed as soon as possible. I was advised it wasn’t by one provider but then my symptoms got worse and the hospital had to confirm it for me just by looking and then swab results. I cried like a baby when i got my results i have only had one partner unprotected for the last year and a half and can say when or how but I’m coming to terms with it and the medication cleared it up immediately.
britt81899 lloy62282
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i did get swabbed and it did come back as HSV 2 i also cried like a baby but have come to terms with it as well i have no idea how or when i got it as i have been with my partner for 3 years as well as he with me no cheating what so ever he has also tested negative so idk
have you gotten another outbreak?
Guest britt81899
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Aww, I cried for days when I got the news. I was 16 y/o and I believe I got it from my first partner. It's been over 15 years since then. The first outbreak is the worst and you'll most likely have less over time, or you might not have one ever again. My first outbreak was a patch on my left lip and it was extremely itchy but it hasn't appeared like that again. After the first one, I'd get one once a year (if that) and it was always a small paper-cut sized mark in the same area between my vagina and anus (felt like a paper cut too but slightly itchy) and it would go away within a week. However, I've gone years now without having an outbreak and I've never taken medication for it. Have your partner use a condom if he feels anything coming on or has an outbreak though because that will cause you to have an outbreak... Keep your head up. You will still live a long, healthy and happy life. 😃