Plzzz help me am worried...plzzz anyone

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Hi everyone. Am 24 yr old boy.iam facing alot of health issues from sep 30th 2014.first I had cough and diharea for a week and persistent fever not more than 99.8 F.i had oral thrush.sore throat(difficult in swallowing), weight loss, skin blackening, unbareable body pains mainly leg pains, I some time have chest pain.these are the health issues faced by me since sept 30th to till date.

My habits

I smoke daily almost 8 cigarettes on average.i booze. 

All this symptoms started appearing after a boozing party where I had a lot of smoking

Coming to my sexual history...

I had gay sex with 3 people (not on the same time) in 2007. And sexual relationship with a girl for about 1 year (ie from 2012 to 2013 oct).After dat I had sex twice with another girl in same year (I.e in Nov 2013).

I dint use condom at any time.

Diagnosis

I took all the tests but all were normal.i took hiv elisa and pcr RNA qualitative test in this month all were negative.

Plzz help me wat will be the problem in my case.there are no proper doctor in my home town.  Plzz help am I infected with hiv.

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    You must get to see  aroper doctor somehow.  Firstly did you have pentrative gay sex. That is, did you put your cock in the other guys anus or did he put his cock in you?  If you didn't use a condom, presumably you empties your semen into each other and to the girl with whom (i beleive) you had penetrative sex.

    If you have had tests for HIV and you ay you are clear, is it because you suspect their reliability.

    Something is clearly wrong with you and you must, at all costs, seek proper advice.

    Good luck to you and let us know how you get o 

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      Thanx for reply jonnojohn

      I was the inserting partner in gay sex.and no one has inserted in my anus

      And yes I had penetrative sex with girl.

      And it has been 9 months from my last sex or expose to till date

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      Can u tell me which test is reliable. ..should I go for hiv viral load or western blot test
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    Hi Anil. I don't know wehre you are but you must seek medical advice.  If you have ejaculated semen (cum) inside of your male partner or female partner you must be very careful of infection especially if you are having sex with both sexes.

    I would be more concerned with the cough, diahorrea, fever, cest pains, skin blackening than I would about how many cigrettes you smoke.  You say you booze.. How much per day and what are you drinking.   I am quite worried for you.

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      Jonnojohn am crying from so many days.am the only son of my parents...

      I used to smoke average of 8 to 10 cigarettes. And I booze occasionally. .

      Jonnojohn wt to do I feel like to commit suicide. 

      I met a hiv counsellor...He saying dat a hiv test after 9 months of a possible risky exposure is conclusive, and he saying hiv can be traced out within 6 months..

      Hiv counsellor is saying dat u don't have to worry becoz u don't have hiv. Are his words true.

      But now am getting cry ..plz I beg u..wat should I do tell me plzzz

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      Jonnojohn plzzz help me wat should I do now.

      One of the hiv counsellor said that a hiv test is conclusive after 6 months of possible risky exposure

      It has been already 10 months of my last exposure

      Is my test conclusive or not...

      If u have any idea on my position let me know...or else plz forward my post to ur friends or experts to whom u know and let me know my status. .

      I beg u plzzzz am the only son of my parents Plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. .....It has been my 10th day crying without sleep..Help me 

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    Anil.  I am so desperately sorry for you but you MUST get proper medical advice. It is very clear from what you are saying that you are a very sick man.  Can you speak to your parents?  They must be seeing you looking so ill and upet and crying.  Are the boy and girl that you had sex with and let your cum into them ill?

    Anil, where are you?  You must get professional help.  It is so difficult for me wihout seeing or meeting you.  Do you have a foreskin?  Do you keep you cock clean - especially after sex?

    Try to be positive and keep in touch with me. Jonno

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      Jonnojohn I don't have foreskin...and yes I have cleaned my pennies with soap after every exposure.

      And am from India from a village.

      And I forgot to tell I had cd4 count checkup on 24th sep 2014  it was 1345 cells and 38%

      Is that true my doctor said hiv can be easily detected after 6 months of exposure

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      Can u tell which doctor should I meet ...whether a general physician or else ???
    • Posted

      Anil hello.  Davy is right. It seems most unlikely that you are infected but your other symtoms and general health do worry me. I imagine you find it difficult and (possibily?) expensive to seek medical help but you do have such a complicated assortment of problems which may or may not be related. You MUST see a reliable, registered General Physician who may want to refer you to someone who specialises.  You have so many symptoms whic may or may not be associated - this i why it is essential that you get PROPER medical advice  Don't have sex until you have proper assurance that you are free from any  disease and, Always use a condom.  One other thin.  When you wash your penis, just use water - not soap or shower gel.

      DO go and get the proper advice, Anil, and please keep in touch with me.  Jon

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      Jon...

      I don't have any words to talk except tears..

      I had met three general physicians, but they advising me to take antibiotics. ....

      But they are not asking for any other things...

      But Jon I am very thankful yo ur concern.

      John if possible can u suggest me a name of hiv test that can assure me that am not infected...

      Waiting for ur reply jon

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      amil.  I really don't know anything about AIDS and testing at all.  If you can do it, I would suggest you speak to the Terence Higgins Hotline in U.K.  The telephone number is 0808-802-1221.  They are the authority on HIV and sexually transmitted diseases.

      Surely there must be an equivilant organisation in India.  Why don't you try Googleing "Advice on Aids (in India).  I relly feel quite helpless.  Please keep in touch and tell me the latest news.  Jon

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      Anil. Please don't talk like that.  I don't want to hear you say that. I wish that we could talk more privately. Can you send me your email address.

      Do you have any close friends that you can talk to?  How far is your village rom the nearest townin India.  Please get back to me soon.

      Jon

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      Anil   I don't want to hear you say these things.  Please come back and talk to me - privately if you prefer.

      Please, please don't do anything rash. Promise me.  Jon

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      Jon 

      I am not in position to move to hospital. 

      Wt to do....

      God should save me...

      And jon if possible if u have any personal doctor talk yo him about my symptoms and history and can u let me know..whether iam infected with hiv or not????

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      Anil. There are drugs which can help in the treatment of HIV.  There must be some way that you can talk to someone about this.  Do you think that the boy you had anal sex with may have been infected? You must speak to someone who specializes in HIV/AIDS. If you send me your email address, I might be ale to get someon e to advise you.

       

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