Possible BPH, looking for advice
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Hi there. I'm 30 years old, and for the past 6 or 7 years I've been having problems when urinating. It first manifested as recurring non-specific urinary tract infections (which I'm told were the early symptoms of a bladder neck obstruction, probably caused by an enlarged prostate) which eventually settled into a long standing problem where it basically takes a very long time to finish. I'll feel as though I've emptied my bladder but if I wait long enough, more comes out (despite having no real sensation of still needing to go). I've found a couple of ways of encouraging further flow but it's still long-winded. If I get up and leave the bathroom too early I get dribbling, sometimes quite bad. It makes being intimate with my girlfriend kind of awkward because immediately after going to the bathroom I don't really want to risk her feeling anything.
I've tried both alfusozin. At first it worked great, but eventually the effectiveness wore off and all it did was give me massive headaches. I then moved over to tamulosin which again...wasn't terribly effective and resulted in retrograde ejaculation. Now I'm on Saw Palmetto which is reasonably effective but seems to wear off quite quickly. I basically have to choose at which time of the day I can afford to be in the toilet for 30-60 minutes.
So I guess my question is if there are any foods I should stay away from, or any other triggers that I might be able to address to get this under control? I don't drink. I'm a social smoker. Maybe 5 days out of the month. Apart from being partial to a good cup of tea/coffee I don't partake in any other substances.
Really desperate for some advice here. I recently cancelled an operation that I was scheduled for on the grounds that I was quoted a 50% chance of success, and the possibility of incontinence and re-constructive surgery if it goes wrong. Not what I want to be putting up with at 30!
Sorry for the long post. I'd be massively grateful for any help anyone can offer.
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RonTexan paul2228
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RonTexan paul2228
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john_03161 RonTexan
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In my case, the out of pocket expenses for the Urolift were trivial compared to the relief in suffering and the "convenience" of not having to risk the brutal recovery and possible side effects of a TURP. I received the "guinea pig" discount from a Urologist here in San Diego, being only his second procedure. Actually he did his first procedure minutes before me!
My regular Urologist was neither knowledgable nor interested in exploring the Urolift option to be of any help. I did over 6 months of research before taking the leap (I recently retired from a career doing research in the field of medicine). Regarding insurance coverage, all I knew at the time was what my primary care doctor told me, that it takes on average 1 1/2 to 2 years for insurance to kick in subsequent to FDA approval (wouldn't suprise me). Since I was at a point of really needing and wanting to address my BPH, I didn't have a desire to verify the validity of that time frame and just went ahead with the procedure. Glad I did.
RonTexan john_03161
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My second urologist, the one I have actually never met, says that medicare will pay up to a year after a procedure if they get approval. $2500 is a lot of money to me, my wife and I are paying around $500 per month for Medicare and supplement and I want my bills covered, by gum! All these concerns are for nothing if my prostate is too large or I have a median lobe, so we'll see, this week.
Again let me say that I really, really appreciate your reply and hope you realize that these posts will remain for years and thousands of BPH patients dreading TURP like the plague are going to appreciate your pioneering effort and my spreading this all over the internet for years to come. Thanks a bunch. Ron
Jwb43 RonTexan
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derek76 RonTexan
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derek76 Jwb43
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I was OK with GL laser but not Thulium Laser but by then the damage had partly been done by Tamsulosin.
Jwb43 derek76
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derek76 Jwb43
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Does anyone know if urolift can be done if a persons prostate has regrown after a previous procedure.
I would have been ruled out for uroloift as my prostate was 125 grms.
Jwb43 derek76
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mike48088 paul2228
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You asked for food advice. Apart from the obvious healthy eating guidelines, which recomend avoiding cholesterol-producing foods like processed meat and carbohydrates (eg burgers, salami, bacon, refined sugar and flour) and food additives, unless you have an allergy to nuts, I would suggest eating seeds (especially pumpkin) and nuts (especially Brazils). An apple a day can bring benefits, and licorice (preferably unsweetened) and fibre have also been recommended. Avoiding caffeine (also in Cola and chocolate) is a good idea but I have also read that Green Tea is good for our complaint so I have been drinking that.
I am not sure how effective this advice will prove, since I was catheterised almost 6 months ago following a single episode of urine retention shortly after a UTI (my first to my knowledge) but am due to see an Urologist tomorrow and hope to find that my symptoms have improved. If not, I shall be exploring the possibility of a prostatic stent or Urolift which seem to me the best options.
Have there been any developments in your health issues?
RonTexan mike48088
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On the other hand, urolift is the perfect solution, in my opinion, if you have a prostate less than 80mg with some uros and 100mg with others and do not have the third lobe which will just drop into the channel created by the urolift stitches and block the flow. I am currently consulting with a uro who does urolift (there are not many), he proposes to remove my third lobe using button turp, wait a while to see if that is not a complete solution, then perform urolift to open the channel more, if necessary. I expect to do this in late October. So my advice is thus; do the urolift if you qualify. It is quick, painless, bloodless mostly, go home the same day or next, no catheter etc, etc. This will buy you a few years time at least to see if furthur advances come forward. There will certainly be many of them as BPH will eventually affect about 60% of males worldwide. What is that about a two billion men currently living? My doc is in San Antonio; Dr Kella.
Good luck and keep us advised.
JDinNC RonTexan
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derek76 JDinNC
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arthur48393 RonTexan
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Consultants who are over 50 are not interested in being or wish to retrain when they have an existing gravy train. I do not blame them them either.
it is also difficult to retrain any one over 50 who is already looking to retire early and I do not blame them for that.
I am a Brit aged 79 years old and still sexually active and scared to lose what I have.
Time will tell if this Urolft procedure is successful but if a stitch falls out it will not as bad as the other issues ie incontinent,no sex and other issues everybody comments on.
I have to make a decision soon and I was hoping you would have yours done by now . I am a coward too. It will cost me 7500$ privately in the UK which is reasonable if successful
Read your comments with interest but no one spotted the retraining etc and cost of wiping out the costly past medical treatments.
for example Electric Driven Cars and Petrol Driven Cars . What would that do to the motor industry?
When I was in Business our Patented products we kept going to get our investment payback. Ie suppressed a better product.
I have no idea how the Urolift procedure will be proven but It does seem a non invasive procedure as you have ascertained and I hope you can report to all should you go for it.
Hope my comments make sense
Best of Luck
Arturo
RonTexan arthur48393
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Knowing what I continue to learn almost daily if I had it to do over again i would start a thread on PAE and try to get a lot of post-op patients who had the PAE procedure done to see how it worked for them.
Good luck, Ron
charles40613 RonTexan
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You make many useful contributions re BPH and related issues but I think you have to be very careful in stating that the Urolift procedure will have to be repeated as you do a few times. Nobody knows. It is a new procedure. NICE the medical governing body in the UK approved Urolift last year and released their report based on two years of trials and data. After those 2 years there were no indications of longevity issues with the procedure. As my urologist said the procedure could be stable for many years only time will tell, I went into Urolift with my eyes open and I think others have to as well. NICE approved it, I’m backing their judgement! In many ways Turps I believe in some circumstances can have to be repeated over time. I think there are downsides or unknown areas re all these procedures.
RonTexan charles40613
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I have heard of studies done validating Urolift up to three years and that's a godsend just in itself if one is suffering. .
In my opinion if a person has an active sex life, a very strong fear of surgery of any kind, limited funds if uninsured, a two-lobe prostate less than 80mg etc then Urolift may be the best choice of all options. I say do it with the reservations below:
I would have the same reservation about Urolift that I would have about any prostate surgery, a gall-bladder or appendix removal, stomach ulcer, etc. My surgeries are going to be done in a major University Medical Center or a Mayo or Johns Hopkins Clinic by the best surgeons and staffs that exist.
Surgical errors, infections, misdiagnosis, improper medication, etc etc have become a seriously increasing cause of injury and death in America. I don't care if it is a minimally-invasive procedure, I still believe that it is surgery and subject to all of the concerns I mention.
My best to you and keep us informed.
Ron
ronert01636 RonTexan
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Surgery is surgery invloving blood etc and minimal invasion is still invasion
.My turp has stopped being effective and am considrering UROLIFT on the one hand and hesitating on the other hand and thinking that I should stick to Rapaflo...
RonTexan ronert01636
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I will repeat what I have said several times in these posts; it is my life, I only have one, I have worked hard for 76 years to maintain a healthy lifestyle and along with great DNA I have been very successful. I believe that the internet provides information readily to all of us such that we do not have to buy in to the agendas of anyone, we can make intelligent decisions ourselves based upon verifiable facts.
You have only one life to live as well, probably longer than mine if you make good decisions from here on.
My best to you and let us know what you decide.
Ron in Texas
arthur48393 RonTexan
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i expected a quicker recovery and certainly a quicker improvement in flow . My flow is 9 and prostate 40 so I am a candidate . I insisted on seeing an experienced Urolift guy in Surrey England and awaiting appointment. I am 79 and dread infections .
mike48088 RonTexan
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jimjames mike48088
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Hi Mike,
Are you able to do Clean Intermittent Catherization (CIC)? If you're able, I can't see any situation where it's not better than a permanent catheter with or without a FlipFlo valve. It's quick, paineless, and nothing to wear. And does not interfere with sex.
Jim. .
bruce19007 RonTexan
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derek76 bruce19007
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brooke40780 JDinNC
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Best, Brooke