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hey everyone, I'm an 18 year old guy and i have been ejaculating very quickly lets say in like 30-40 seconds max and i always thought it would get better when i get older but now i'm 18 and i still have that problem and i want to last for long because i cant please my girlfriend when i ejaculate so quickly. i dont like using creams and stuff i just want to fix this 😦
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Wee_Dugie rob35913
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When you are with your GF what happens after you have ejaculated? Do you stay pretty much erect, or do you go completely soft? What happens if you stimulate or your GF stimulates your penis after you have ejaculated?
Have you ever tried just giving your GF different kinds of sexual pleasure and focussed purely on the pleasure she is receiving? Can you make her orgasm and purely forget about what is happening with your penis?
rob35913 Wee_Dugie
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i get erected again and i give her every kind of pleasure but i hate ejaculating just when she starts doing something with it or just when she wants to touch it i ejaculate and i hate it 😦
Wee_Dugie rob35913
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I am really sorry, I had typed out a very long considered response to this, but my browser crashed and I lost ALL the text
I can only apologise and try and get back to you A/S/P
One thing you can do is research on the web or elsewhere:
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rob35913 Wee_Dugie
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but i wanna last long 😦
Wee_Dugie rob35913
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This is not something you can change overnight. There are lots of online articles from the likes of Men's Health publications that address this and can give you useful approaches and practical methods of dealing with what you have going on.
I used to have this problem and I read a number of articles, these were about what is typically termed Kegels for Men, I also started doing Yoga and eventually Pilates as well.
I also learned about really concentrating and using things like Start, Stop when masturbating. You can really learn about how to tune-in to what is happening in your penis and eventually prevent yourself from coming too soon.
If you want to bring REAL change YOU need to put in the effort, do online research, learn about the practical steps you can take. And yes, this does not provide an overnight cure, but the longer you leave it to start doing practical exercises and making changes the longer you will have the unsatisfactory situation.
pav886 rob35913
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Hello,
You can Try Orgasm Control Wipes, 30 mins before sex just apply it on a penis.
If you do not want to use it - get an appointment with psychiatry or sexologist and tell them what is your problem. Probably you will get dapoxetine or parogen (paroxetine).
Personally, when I was on parogen (due to anxiety), there was one day I couldn't ejaculate while sex. She was so tired man 😄