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Protected Vaginal Sex, Unprotected Oral of Penis and Anus

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ben71605
ben71605

Hello,

I do have another discussion active however this incident happened two days prior to New Years Eve on the Saturday.

I had Sex for the second time in two years last Saturday with a old girlfriend. My issue is i know shes very sexually active which worry's me as i caught mono of her years ago when we first met.

I was drunk last Saturday and rather horny we ended up going back to my place and having sex.

I used a condom for vaginal sex but she gave my a unprotected b*****b and licked my anus unprotected. I also fingered her for a while. To be honest it was a silly mistake.

Ive had some extremely weird symptoms since which include bodywide itching, weird sensations to tip of penis, mild itching on ass cheeks and scrotum.

Ive also developed a lump on my shoulder and sore throat day two days later which i believe may be due to another incident which i have in another thread.

Ive also experienced neck pain and muscleaches. Also feel not right. The most worrying symptom is the red dots on my scrotum which i will add a picture if i can.

What are my exposures here being the unprotected receptive oral man and protected vaginal.

Many thanks,

Ben

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  • kenneth1955
    kenneth1955 ben71605

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    Ben

    Ben Ben Ben.. You need to slow done and think before you do anything. The best thing I can tell you if you don't start to feel better go to a doctor and get check out. This way you will know for sure.

    Please be careful......................Ken

  • Guest
    Guest ben71605

    Posted

    You can be exposed to both forms of herpes depending on which she might have but rest assured that the risks are low unless she was actively shedding (which you can't see) Being that you used a condom for vaginal and not even one for the oral, you could be fine. From experience, when I was dumb and stayed with my gf who had HsV1 & 2, we had protected sex and unprotected oral was always given to me. After our breakup, I was scared of the risks and was tested twice post 4 months and 10 months and all came back negative.

    PLOT TWIST: Please ensure you get tested to ensure you yourself doesn't have any StD LAYING dormant.

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