Public Speaking
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So I'm a fairly outgoing confident guy and I don't tend to suffer from a lot of social anxiety. In fact I'd say I'm fairly comfortable holding conversations with peers and strangers. I used to be very shy but growing up and particularly between the ages of 15-19 I grew confidence and came out of my shell.
I do, however experience mild anxiety on a daily basis, I'm assuming an average amount or just over average perhaps. This doesn't tend to overwhelm me though.
But what I really want to address is something which is concerning me and I feel need sorting. For the past few years, and coincidentally ever since my first year of university, when I went through a bad breakup with an ex-girlfriend, I've experienced social anxiety and had symptoms of panic attacks during situations when I've had to speak publicly. I don't mean in social groups, but during class at university is one instance. When having to talk in that kind of environment to my group (most of the people of which I get along well with) I've had panic attacks and recently I've noticed this same type of anxiety has crept into a few other social situations.
I could really do with some advice or support on this. It would be much appreciated. I just don't want this to worsen.
Regards,
Chris
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JanaDell cjmartin1
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cjmartin1 JanaDell
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I'm good at getting over things which don't work out, and I don't tend to live my life with regrets really. Like you say it's a matter of perception I just get anxious when it comes to public speaking, maybe rejection is what I fear subconsciously in that type of situation but I don't know.
Regards,
Chris
richard89308 cjmartin1
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Try talking to someone experienced in relationship issues and see if that helps.
Richard
CruiseLady cjmartin1
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Feeling nervous of speaking in public or even voicing your opinion amongst friends is a very common form of anxiety. I am an older lady, and write posts here occasionally in the hope of helping others through my experience of anxiety. For example I write poetry and short stories for local events, but I can never read them out personally. I always get someone else to do it! Also, if I have to speak about anything I get hot and bothered, and although well-educated, I lose all confidence. You may find there is a group in your area which helps people to overcome their nerves. You are not the only one to suffer, believe me. There is help out there. Good Luck!
cjmartin1 CruiseLady
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Yeah it can be frustrating like, I'm going to try find help locally. Thanks