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Random sore on penis and I need answers ASAP

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carl20543
carl20543

I had sex last week with a girl that I always usually have sex with. We had unprotected sex didn’t last long really was a quickie and two days later she is telling me that she has lower stomach pain and that it hurts when she wipes her vagina. At the same time she doesn’t have any itching, burning, or bumps but she did have a discharge that smelled fishy which she already had also. After she told me this I randomly saw a sore appear on top of my penis but it also doesn’t itch, burn, or bother me. What could this be because she is thinking she has symptoms of genital herpes? She went to a gynecologist and she tested positive for a bacterial infection now she is waiting on results from a cultural examination that she was given.

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  • christine_44474
    christine_44474 carl20543

    Posted

    Doesn’t sound like herpes if it doesn’t hurt  , usually herpes bumps hurts ,
    • Cashmoney
      Cashmoney christine_44474

      Posted

      I took a blood test,,she said it came back positive for herpes simplex hsv1,,,so you don't think it's a out break?,, but even my so called first out break didn't burn it just itched🤷???.That one pimple I had on my face has dried up does that mean my out break is over?

    • ashley78942
      ashley78942 Cashmoney

      Posted

      Did the doctor tell u if u have oral or genital ? Hsv 1 can be either place. U may have had outbreaks and just never even noticed if the symptoms were mild. Some don’t have bad outbreaks. 
    • Cashmoney
      Cashmoney ashley78942

      Posted

      Yes,,The doctor told me I had herpes,,she didn't day rather it was genital or oral,,,but from my understanding if you have one you have both..so if they are mild break out and your on suppressive medication what are your chances of effecting your ling term partner

    • ashley78942
      ashley78942 Cashmoney

      Posted

      No that’s not true. You CAN have both but just because you have one doesn’t mean you have the other.  I know if your on suppressive therapy it’s a very low chance of affecting other people when your both having an outbreak. But I would still always disclose that you have it. My boyfriend didn’t tell me he had it since he never had an outbreak but I still contacted it from him. 
    • Cashmoney
      Cashmoney ashley78942

      Posted

      Let me ask you this Ashley,,Why now I wonder I have been with this man since I was 22/23 years old I am 40 about to be 41 and just now experiencing a break out,,,,if this is a sexually transmitted disease how can you still can get affected by condoms..If it's skin to skin contact my first out break he slept beside me every night..How you know he is not already affected...

    • carl20543
      carl20543 christine_44474

      Posted

      It’s not a bump it’s a sore on me but I have been cleaning it and stuff properly and it hasn’t had any type of pain or itch since it showed up. What about her hurting when she wipes what could that be.
    • ashley78942
      ashley78942 Cashmoney

      Posted

      It’s crazy but they do say it can lay dormant and then sometimes when your going through a lot of stress or anything to weaken your immune system it will cause an outbreak. Are you sure he’s been faithful ? Hate to even ask it but you never know.  And yes a condom can help BUT if your having an outbreak & it touches somewhere the condom doesn’t protect it can still spread 

    • Cashmoney
      Cashmoney ashley78942

      Posted

      So far he has been now back in the day he was not,,but that was like in /2000/2001/2002,,He has been incarcerated since 2003,he got out 2015,,,we were first sexually active with each other in 2004 or5 on his weekend pass..I myself had a friend whom which we used a condom every time he has been the only male that I have been all the way sexually active with,,with no condom and no stipulations besides anal sex No way that's not for me..I've never had unprotected sex with another male besides this man, ,out of the 13 years he was locked up I patiently waited on him for at least 11 of them and those other two years I probably had safe sex about 7 or 8 times..so I stayed as faithful as possible and very cautious..no raw sex with Noooo one because I knew I loved him and wanted to be with him...so I did my annual check ups early for STD's...I was on birth control in case something went wrong,,but I just didn't want to be out their like that so I didn't flirt around with a lot of men...because I didn't want my man to feel like he was messing with a white so I just didn't do it and now this,,,this is crazy for someone to try and live a fair life and now this

    • Cashmoney
      Cashmoney

      Posted

      And then another thing what if the cold sore around the mouth area has drown up,,but you still feel a very small tingling sensation in my vagina area not so irritable where I'm just scratching myself to death just when I wipe after I pee,,,which doesn't burn at all

  • Cashmoney
    Cashmoney carl20543

    Posted

    My main concern is be able to have sex with my husband when we want to and have a healthy sex life...I was diagnosed with the herpes simplex,but not having a lot of the symptoms I have been reading about,,I dont have all the scabbing of sores and break outs on my vagina now I was told I have lesions on the inside of my vagina lips I guess,, I dont see them, but I do feel the itching sensation every now and again, but no burning at all...I had one pimple on my lip, but a few days later I was starting my period..I have been so parinoid since I was told this, I been cautions with my body,,But I think it okay for me to have sex with my spouse, I dont know if this is a break out or just normal menstral cycle stuff?..We have been sexually active since 2010 when he came home from prison,, so my thing is if the virus lives in you why after all these years and month all of a sudden herpes has come into play but only me and not him? Is that meaning he already has a simplex and dont know and he can't get infected twice? just courious

  • Cashmoney
    Cashmoney carl20543

    Posted

    I really don't know carl20543,,I'm just experiencing this stuff myself hell I'm confused,,I don't know if I'm having a break out or a menstrual symptoms...All I know is I don't want to infect my fiance and I want yo know do he already have the virus with out our wedding being cancelled...

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