Reactive Arthritis, but no-one is listening.
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I am 39 years old and have just been diagnosed with reactive arthritis. My docs appear to be rubbish, as after reading some of the other posts I feel like I'm being fobbed off. I have been given no painkillers and was told to rest until it passes which is up to 6 months. I have had this on and off for the past 18 months but they don't seem to be taking in what I say. I don't know where to turn to in order for someone to listen to what I am saying.
At present I am unable to walk unaided due to the pain and weakness in my hips and knees. I have also developed pain in my lower back which keeps me awake at night as I am unable to get comfortable (my constant fidgiting keeps my hubby awake and he has to work). I am tearful all the time and frustrated that I am unable to do even the simplist of tasks.
Any advice or just someone in my position to talk to would be good
Thanks
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RLS
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I have been off work for 4mths,they will expect me back in Sept.Can not believe you have had it for 18 mths. I am having pains too in knee ,hips, wrists,and joint swellings.I have had physio and hydrotherapy at hospital as affected all my spine and could not bend to oven , washing machine etc.now I can.
People cant believe that I am still not better.I really sympathise with you.I am seeing a rheumatolgist soon so maybe have answers.Do you have swollen hands too?I think maybe ask to see specialist.I find taking Panadol at night really helps.Doc says safe to take regularly.He gave me Co-Dydramol for intense pain .Hope this helps.It is good to share problem as nobody really understands, It would be good to talk .
June39
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I have swollen ankles and knees but only my thumb on my left hand is affected at the moment. I have also noticed it seems to be much worse after doing a few extra things throughout the day. I am unable to take my dogs out or walk down to the shop and being stuck in the house unless my husband takes me is rather depressing.
I hope your appointment with the specialist goes ok and you get the answers you need.
RLS
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Do you work? I am not sure whether I will be fit to work in the special needs school again as not fit and they have many viruses!!
I hope doctors ok too.Will tell you how I get on.We are evidently going to have good and bad days.
June39
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I do miss taking my dogs out and nipping into town or even to walk down the hill to meet my husband from work. I myself do not work as this illness is not permitting enough. I have woken after a restless nights sleep with pain in my shoulder too. I have trouble keeping my legs still at night, they twitch so much it wakes me and my husband up. I suppose its just another part of it to get used to.
I think as far as your return to work, I would speak to your specialist and your doctor.
I find that keeping my legs warm helps alot but I do feel somewhat like a granny having a blanket over my legs ha ha.
RLS
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Are you going to docs this week.The flare ups really knock you back don't they?I.hope to find out more from rheumatologist any way hope you are having a good week.
June39
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I spent last night in the chair in the lounge as its the only place I could get comfortable and didnt wake my huby up by kicking him. I find the restless leg stuff worst as I cant control it at all, frustrated is not the word.
Back to the docs this week so we see what they come up with this time ( another useless and pointless plan if the past is anything to go by)
I hope you are well x
RLS
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I find that too,that you have good days ,.then you seem to go backwards! Very demoralising! I have had a better week so far.Wish you luck at docs.
Hope you are feeling ok toox
RLS
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Hope you are doing ok?x
Luchador
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HopedforReA
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I developed Reactive Arthritis over a year ago and am still unable to walk.
THANK YOU to anyone willing to share!!!