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hadi79
hadi79

I was diagnosed with herpes2 about three years a go and my wife caught it from me , the first outbreak was the hardest and rest comes only like itchiness , worth mentioning that my wife never experienced any kind of outbreaks, but five months ago I starded to suffer from urgency to go to the toilet after having sex ( protected sex ) and this symptom used to last for two days after sex, but three month ago it's getting much longer fifteen days or more then it stops then I have sex again and here it goes all over again for another fifteen days or more , have anyone experienced such thing? and is it because of the herpes there might be some germs that go into my penis then to my bladder as I take off the condom , it's really annoying.

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  • jessica79408
    jessica79408 hadi79

    Posted

    No just based on what you described sounded like a uti 
    • hadi79
      hadi79 jessica79408

      Posted

      actually I did a urine tests and all came negative, no uti's besides I don't have any uti's symptoms, like pain or burning while urinating , it's just after sex I start to feel urgency to go to the toilet and it lasts for 15 days.

    • hadi79
      hadi79

      Posted

      can I ask another question , my wife heard that couples with herpes having unprotected sex may cause Cervical cancer , is this true ?
    • hadi79
      hadi79 jessica79408

      Posted

      me too , may be with hpv and not with hsv , anyway I really appreciate your replies jessica thank you so much.
    • jessica79408
      jessica79408 hadi79

      Posted

      Yea hpv is linked to cancer and warts but you still wouldn't be more at risk for sleeping with someone else that also has hpv. Has your doctor told you what could be causing your issue?? 

    • hadi79
      hadi79 jessica79408

      Posted

      he said it's because of a small stone in the kidney I may have such symptoms, but I don't agree with hem since it happen to me after sex, I live in the Netherland doctors here won't bother to make further investigations they just give pain kilkers what ever your symptoms were.

    • FelizCastus
      FelizCastus hadi79

      Posted

      Untrue. Certain HPV stains can cause cervical cancer, but not herpes by itself. Your urination issues also sound unrelated.
    • hadi79
      hadi79 FelizCastus

      Posted

      so youhow mean there's no bond between herpes and uti ?

      some confirm it and some deny it.

      so what could be the reason of the urinating urgency I feel right after sex which continue for about 15 days , worth mentioning that all the uti test I did came negative.

    • FelizCastus
      FelizCastus hadi79

      Posted

      Herpes can cause burning urination, which may be mistaken for an UTI. It does not cause urgency, however. Also, the burning urination is primarily experienced with the first outbreak. You'll have to speak to a doctor or specialist to find out the cause.

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