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Really need advice (quite personal)

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katie2705
katie2705

This forum has always helped me out so I thought best to ask for advice for this. I've recently found out I'm pregnant I suffer with anxiety as it is and I really feel as if I'm no ready yet I have every thought going through my head.. Please no one be judgemental because I already feel like crap. Just achey and tired and really stuck and don't know what to do feel

Really anxious. Can anyone help me? Feel alone

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  • lynsey90326
    lynsey90326 katie2705

    Posted

    Hi katie hope you are okay My advice would be to take a breath and give yourself time to think about what you want pregnancy is hard and it's an emotional rollercoster but there is a lot of help out there to get you through it if that is what you want. I have two kids my first was not planned what so ever I had just finished uni and babies were not on the cards at that time but it happened and I wouldn't change it for the world it actually gave me a new focus in life and I kind if found who I was supposed to be. I know how hard it is and the questions you will be asking yourself. Feel free to pm me if you want to ask any questions. Try and stay calm and think about all your options and what is best for you at this time x
  • Twpy73622
    Twpy73622 katie2705

    Posted

    Hi Katie

    I dont think anyone has the right to be judgemental, we're all in different situations. You sould like this is getting the better of you.  Only you can decide what to do and you MUST do whats best for YOU!!  Chin up. Be strong. x

    • katie2705
      katie2705 Twpy73622

      Posted

      Thank you! I'll have to have a proper think and hopefully I'll have support from the people around me xx
  • Bid2012
    Bid2012 katie2705

    Posted

    Hi Katy

    I'm 9 weeks pregnant and suffered with anxiety and depression on and off for the last 5 years. Feeling exactly the same as you, it's a planned pregnancy but since finding out I've been struggling to cope, wondering if I want to keep the baby then feeling so guilty. I'm hating my job and now feel trapped,Lots of thoughts going round my head. My advice would be try speak to family and close friends, midwife and gp. I've mainly kept my feelings to myself as I feel ashamed of myself but decided today to go see the gp as I can't see no way to stop the negative thoughts. I feel I need to go back on AD, after speaking to my midwife about concerns being on them she reassured it's maybe best to be on them and have control on my depression rather than struggling through.

    I hope this helps in some way and know your not alone.

    Xx

    • katie2705
      katie2705 Bid2012

      Posted

      Sorry to hear you've been stressing. If you like I can PM you we can vent and support eachother. Need to talk to people who understand xx
    • Bid2012
      Bid2012 katie2705

      Posted

      That would be really nice, it's reassuring knowing I'm not alone how I feeling x
  • Guest
    Guest katie2705

    Posted

    Hi love I hope you are okay my period just started so I feel like crap lol yay sad
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