Really struggling.....help

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I have never had a serious/long term injury in my life worst I have done is pulled a muscle, however that all changed on 26/08/15 when playing football my AT ruptured.

Went to A&E and was fitted with a temporary cast and was the fitted with a boot today. Never been on crutches in my life and really struggling.

Me and my wife have a 12 week old baby so she needs me and my wife is running between the two of us so I not only feel completely useless I also feel guilty.

I can't get up and down stairs, I can barely move room to room and just don't know when/if it will get better...

Anyone got experience of timescales and when it wil get easier?

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    Hi.  I did mine playing football on May 15th this year.  In boot after 2 days. Non op route.  Partial weight bearing (balancing) after 2 weeks, partial weight bearing after 3 (walking with crutches) and full weight bearing (walking in the boot) no crutches after 4 weeks.  Boot off after 7 weeks and walking slowly / limping. Shower tip - specialist boot cover £10 from ebay with elaticated pull cord with swing bin liner over the top was great. small pack pack to carry around essentials was useful. Bum shuffle up stairs 1st week and carefully with boot after that. Keep boot raised as much as possible when resting to reduce swelling.  I walked and played golf (12 holes) after 10 weeks and am getting slowly better, walking mostly OK with only slight limp if I do too much. Biggest issue now is calf muscle build up as it withered so much in those 7 weeks & this is no easy task.  It is a long process, take it steady and listen to your body.  It WILL get better, but full recovery to running, playing sport is 9months+ after injury & I am nowhere near this after 4 months.  BUT I can walk a few miles & do all I need to. Keep positive.  The 1st week is disbelief what has happened, 2nd week is feeling grumpy as you figure out how bad it is and what you can't do, then once you have come to terms with it, it gets better and you adjust.  These forums really help, but also know that many folks on these forums are those who are still having problems and need to know they are not alone. This is a common injury and many people recover well and quickly (& dont post on these forums).  Best wishes over the next 8 weeks and keep posting and we can help you through this.
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    The forum does not allow personal details to be shared, so look me up on FB Stephen Cartwright and personal message me for my phone number as I am happy to chat over the phone to give you some help/advise.
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    im 9 weeks now post op. i am a year older than yourself at 29 and i too found it somewhat of a shock.

    i agree that the 1st and 2nd week are the hardest. try and do something everyday. for me it was watching jeremy kyle. not a great choice i know. a simple trip to a coffee shop/cafe certainly perks up your mood.

    your foot will feel strange right now. It heals with scar tissue.so whilst your foot is immobilised scar tissue builds up in the gap between the tendon ends.

    i would say the following things have really helped me in terms of healing:

    good diet - high in protein

    vit tablets. 1000mg vit c a dayalong with other things

    staying active.

    calling in favours.

    you cant get through this easily unless you have close friends and family.

    my friends are on a promise of some jamaican food when i can drive. that seems to balance out hundreds of lifts smile

     

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      Cheers James, I haven't gone down the op route however day 5 and leg feels like nothing is wrong however I don't dare put weight on it!

      I am still struggling on the crutches but getting the hand of shuffling my bum up the stairs so it is getting easier.

      I don't get any time off work so I am straight back in on Tuesday!

      I have managed to arrange daily lifts to and from work with a friend of mine who jumped to help as her husband had this injury a few years ago so understands the pain!

      Thanks for your tips I will be changing my diet and will look at getting some vitamins.

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      Just remembered another thing that helped me was buying "gell crutch grip"....  google it... I had standard NHS crutches and they magde my hands very sore; gell sleeves slip over and make moving round a bit easier.

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